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You are absolutely perfectly normal. And hey isn't it wonderful that you are able to have orgasms?


First off, ejaculation and orgasm are not the same thing, for women or for men. We equate them in our minds because they often happen very closely together–almost always for men unless they have learned ejaculation mastery, and sometimes for women.


Just as orgasm is something you as a woman learn to do, so is ejaculation. Here are some tips:

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This year’s lineup of presenters is simply astonishing.

Jennifer McLean is once again hosting the fifth annual Healing with  the Masters teleseminar series. It is hard to imagine why anyone  would choose to ignore this team of presenters which includes 24  of the world’s greatest healing masters. And you can learn from their  wisdom at zero cost to you! All you have to do is register and listen; it’s completely free.

Experience a magical shift in your life, spiritual awakening, physical  and emotional healing, as you learn and then apply the teachings from  this team of remarkable human beings, each of whom have influenced thousands and in some cases millions of lives around the planet with  their published books, speaking and workshops.

 
The speakers in Jennifer’s program are each commitment to revealing  the profound discoveries that have contributed to their leading edge  healing work so that you can apply that immediately to your own life.

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Sex is essential in a fulfilling mate relationship, unless you have consciously chosen to have one that is platonic, more akin to friendship than marriage. In a true marriage, based upon lifelong commitment, sexual fulfillment and abundance in love and pleasure are inseparable from relationship happiness. And relationship happiness is the surest, quickest, and easiest route through to your personal emotional maturity and spiritual awakening.

Sex is good and pleasure is not only good, it’s actually necessary for peak mental and emotional well-being. Sexual fulfillment is good for you personally, and for everyone else around you. Your children, friends, neighbors, and co-workers will benefit from your happiness, vitality, and positive state of mind. You’ll also discover that sexual fulfillment, and its accompanying high state of physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being make you productive in your work, more creative in your art, and more excellent in your sport.

Taking time to feed your body with the sensual nutrition of loving erotic touch, connecting on the most intimate levels with your lover, experiencing beyond any doubt that you’re cared for and loved, makes everything else in

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Yes of course you deserve something. He was being a selfish jerk. But if you get angry it will not be helpful, not even a little bit helpful. What would be helpful is if you reveal to your fiancé that his lack of attention to you on this special lovers romantic holiday hurts your feelings. And of course this desire to have him carry you in his thoughts and in his heart would extend to every day of the year, not just on special days such as Valentine’s, or birthdays, or anniversaries. When you respond by revealing that his indifference to you hurt you, and perhaps that it makes you afraid that he does not love you (only if that is a real fear of course), means you are opening your heart to him, because opening your heart means that you have the courage to take the risk by daring to reveal what you are feeling and this makes you emotionally vulnerable and transparent. On the other hand, anger typically results in making him want to fight or run away, which is what he did by storming out of the house in a huff. His angry response at being called on his callous and indifferent behavior toward you was only a childish ego defense. If he does not respond well to your revealing that his behavior hurts you or makes you afraid, you are advised to think long and carefully if you want to go ahead with marriage to this man. If things are not good before marriage, they are not likely to be better after marriage.

Al Link and Pala Copeland

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One of the most important things to remember when pleasing a woman is to go very very slowly. Start with light soft touches and only progress to firmer, harder and faster as her arousal builds. Start at the extremities and work your way in toward the hot spots of breasts and genitals. Don’t go near the genitals until she is already fully aroused. Spend lots of time kissing. Speak loving words of adoration and affection in her ears. When you find something that works, in other words, she lets you know with sound and movement that she likes your touch, then keep doing that until she indicates she is ready for a change. Sound and movement mean yes, this is working, this turns her on; quiet and still means this is not working and you should try something different, unless of course you are deliberately in a phase of quiet and stillness.


Our book The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Supercharged Kama Sutra provides detailed instruction on all aspects of foreplay, sexual intercourse positions, and afterplay.

Al Link and Pala Copeland

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Tapping World Summit 2010

As you know if you spend more than 5 minutes online looking for information to change your life, there is a lot of  "stuff" out there.  Much of it is theoretical, processes and ideas that sound good but at the end of the day, don"t give you: RESULTS.

And if I"m about one thing, it"s RESULTS.

And what I want to share with you today delivers such tremendous results, quickly, that it falls into the "I can"t believe this works this well" category after people use it.

It"s a technique called EFT or Meridian Tapping. You may have heard of it because the buzz around it is intense.

Whether you want to deal with emotional blocks, anxiety, anger, past traumas or phobias, or you want torelease physical pain and drop those extra pounds, this technique is a gateway to making that happen for you.

And my personal favorite, it helps you, in a big way, attract what you want into your life by clearing out the negative and limiting beliefs you may be holding.

Perhaps the best part about this technique, is you can get a crash course on it, and experience immediate results, for free.

Join the 81,000 people who registered for the Tapping World Summit last time around and saw their lives change.

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And please let me know about your individual results, because these stories of change and transformation is what makes my day! Return to Sexy Spiritual Relationships and create a Forum thread.
 

Al Link and Pala Copeland

P.S. - When you register for the event you actually get five really cool audios to listen to right away so that you can learn the basic of Meridian Tapping and see the results for yourself immediately.

Teleseminar series with Al and Pala

If you’re ready to take your love life, your relationships and yourself to the next level,this is the place to be!

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The Eroscillator

• The Eroscillator is whisper quiet.

• Comes with a full year guarantee.

• This is the Rolls Royce of female genital stimulators.

• The only device clinically proven to bring you to orgasm.

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No wonder you are confused, but I wouldn't go accusing your partner of fooling around just yet. This sudden onset of extreme tightness may be a condition called "vaginismus". Vaginismus is a spasm in the musculature of the outer third of the vagina which makes insertion difficult or impossible. For some women, this muscle spasm is painful; for others, it is not.


According to the Mount Sinai Hospital (Toronto, Canada) website: "It is widely believed that in most cases of vaginismus, the spasm is triggered either by pain or the anticipation of pain (emotional or physical pain). Much like the way an eyelid closes when something comes to close to the eye or a muscle flinches in response to an imminent punch, vaginismus is like a vaginal flinch.


It is in some sense protecting the area, even though the woman doesn't want it to. Some women have fears or guilt regarding intercourse, others have physical pain problems, and still others have no obvious cause for their condition. One perplexing aspect of vaginismus is that often the spasm remains long after the woman has dealt with any anxieties or physical problems. So learning to control and eliminate this spasm is how one cures vaginismus."


In your partner's case, if she is indeed experiencing vaginismus, it could well have been precipitated by the extra large dildo you played with shortly before her new "tightness" came about, now her vagina may be trying to protect itself.

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The problem you describe, of having difficulty ejaculating when you want to, is much less common than the problem of ejaculating before you are ready, but many men do suffer from this situation.


Ironically, the cause for both is likely to be the same. Let me explain.

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