Opposites – “See Saw”

“Because you have been such a good boy, I am going to milk your goldenrod in such a teasing delightful way that you will beg me for mercy.”

There are rings of muscles going from the opening of the yoni to the cervix at the back of the vaginal canal. If the lady is highly skilled in the art of love, she will be able to individually contract each of these rings, going back and forth. When the lingam is inside while she performs these wondrous squeezes, it is known as “riding the elevator”. It is the best elevator!

Excerpted from our Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positions eBook.

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Face to Face – “One Crutch”

The crutch position is excellent for rubbing the lingam directly against the clitoris, while at the same time penetration may caress the G-spot for a double delight. This position is good when the lingam is small and the yoni is large.

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Woman on Top – “Crouching Tigress” (variation – “Side-saddle”)

“She uses the Mare’s Trick, gripping your penis with her yoni’s vice, squeezing and stroking it, holding it inside her for a hundred heart-beats. Drawing up her feet, she revolves her hips so that your penis circles deep within her yoni, you arching your body to help her.”
Love Teachings of Kama Sutra by Vatsyayana, translated by Indra Sinha

This position is excellent when the lingam is small and the yoni is large, particularly if the lady’s PC muscles are well toned and capable of gripping her lover’s lingam tightly.

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Woman On Top Variations

The lover on top is in a dominant position. It is most desirable that in Tantric sacred lovemaking the man and woman take turns initiating and receiving. In relationships where one or the other partner is particularly dominant, an excellent way to “give up the lead” is to allow the lover who is normally less active and more passive, to assume the top position (at least sometimes).

Woman on Top – “Crouching Tigress” (variation – full front saddle ride)

“If long lovemaking exhausts you before your lover has reached her orgasm, you should allow her to roll you over on your back and sit astride you, taking initiative.”

Woman on Top – “Crouching Tigress” (variation – partial side-saddle ride)

“She cups and lifts her buttocks with her palms, spreads wide her thighs, and digs in her heels besides her hips, while you caress her breasts.”

This position is particularly desirable if the woman has a small yoni and the man has a large lingam. Also, because the woman is on top she can select exactly the right depth, speed and angle of penetration, giving maximum stimulation to her G-Spot, which can bring about deep vaginal or ejaculatory orgasms.

This material is excerpted from our Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positions eBook by Al Link and Pala Copeland

Quotes from The Love Teachings of Kama Sutra: With Extracts from Koka Shastra, Ananga Ranga and Other Famous Indian Works on Love, by Vatsyayana, Translated by Indra Sinha

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Most Tantric sacred lovemaking texts substitute more poetic terms to refer to the male and female sexual anatomy. Penis is lingam. Vagina is yoni. There are hundreds of other terms commonly used, such as golden rod, wand of light, jade stalk, tangled garden, honey pot and secret cave. Using such terminology is generally perceived to be more respectful, sensual and romantic. Certainly the language commonly heard on the streets such as cock and cunt, seems by comparison crude and disrespectful.

Genital Sizes – Mix and Match

The Kama Sutra, by Vatsyayana classifies the lingam and yoni according to size.

Male – Lingam: Hare (small) – Bull (medium) – Horse (large)

Female – Yoni: Deer (small) – Mare (medium) – Elephant (large)

According to Vatsyayana (and common sense) matches of equal size are ideal, but lovers can manage the other combinations quite nicely. Certain positions are helpful when there is a mismatch of genital sizes.

When the lingam is small and the yoni large try the following positions.

• Man on Top – “Missionary” (variation – legs over shoulders) – allows for maximum penetration
• Woman on Top – “Crouching Tigress” (variation – “Sidesaddle”) – allows for the skillful use of PC squeezing by the woman
• Opposites – “Backslide” – provides an ideal angle for stimulation of the G-Spot

When the lingam is large and the yoni is small try the following positions.

• Man on Top – “Missionary” (variation – man supports his weight off the woman) – allows for holding back from maximum penetration
• Woman on Top – “Tender Surrender” (variation – lying face to face) – the lady is in charge of penetration and thrusting
• Face to Face – “One Crutch” – allows for holding back from maximum penetration
• Sideways – “The Lover’s Scissors” – penetration is not deep and thrusting is relaxed
• Other Positions – Pregnancy – “The Cradle” (variation II) – shallow penetration and relaxed thrusting

This is an excerpt from our eBook “Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positons”

All of the positions mentioned above will be added to this blog. Check back to see all of them.

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Woman on Top – “Tender Surrender” (Variation – Lying face to face)

“She climbs upon you, the flowers dropping from her tousled hair, her giggles turning to gasps; every time she bends to kiss your lips her nipples pierce your chest.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra, by Vatsyayana, translated by Indra Sinha

Both men and women may have difficulty opening their hearts and allowing themselves to be emotionally vulnerable and transparent, but heart opening seems most challenging for men. In this woman-on-top position the man must surrender to his lady, making himself vulnerable to her. Once you understand that control is the enemy of ecstasy, you may begin to appreciate the benefits of complete surrender to one another in lovemaking.

When the lady is on top, she gives more energy than she takes. This is particularly beneficial if the man is recovering from an illness or injury or is in need of rest. In the variation shown here, the lovers are able to harmonize their breath while they gaze lovingly into each other’s eyes. A combination of harmonized breathing and eye gazing is one of the easiest ways for lovers to circulate their hot sexual energy. This position is also very effective when the lingam is large and the yoni is small as the lady is in charge of penetration and thrusting.

This position is excerpted from our eBook “Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positons”

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Man on Top – “Missionary” (variation – Man Standing)

“With raised thighs, her feet placed either side of your waist; linga enters yoni; you rain hard blows upon her body.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra, by Vatsyayana, translated by Indra Sinha

In this “missionary” variation with the man standing, the pumping action can be particularly vigorous. This is most suitable when the couple has already generated considerable erotic passion, when both lovers desire a harder, animal approach rather than a more still, quiet and spiritual one. Don’t misunderstand, we suggest that hard fucking can be as holy as any meditation. We invite God and Goddess into our bed when we are passionately engaged in hot lovemaking as well as when we are joined in a prayerful meditative posture, for example in one of the variations of the YabYum positions that will be featured in another post. Your intention is what makes your sex spiritual, not the position or activity you are engaged in.

This position is excerpted from our eBook “Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positons”

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Man on Top – “Missionary” (variation – legs over shoulders)

“She draws her limbs together, clasping her knees tightly to her breasts, her yoni, like an opening bud, offered up for pleasure.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra, by Vatsyayana, translated by Indra Sinha

In this variation with her legs over your shoulders she presents her yoni fully ripe and open for maximum penetration. Depending upon size the penis may reach all the way to her cervix at the back of her vaginal canal, which can be very erotically stimulating for her if the lingam just teasingly touches her cervix. However, this position is not recommended if the lingam is large and the yoni is small because it may be painful for the woman if the man pushes too hard against her cervix. This position is highly effective when the lingam is small and the yoni large.

This position is excerpted from our eBook “Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positons”

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