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I am assuming there is nothing wrong with your yoni (Sanskrit for vagina) and that your lover is unfortunately projecting this entire problem onto you, as if he had nothing to do with it. Both of you could benefit by learning the knowledge and skill of mastery in the art of love. For example, read some books and take some workshops.


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Gift Wrapped (for Women)

 
Time for Exercise: one to two hours

Properties Required: clay and paints

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1.With clay, papier mâché, or simple play-dough form a likeness of your yoni (Sanskrit for vagina).

2.Paint your yoni with stunning colors and symbols.

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Yummy Yoni (For Women)

          Women are often taught, subliminally or overtly, that their genitals are smelly, dirty, and ugly. This exercise will help you see the power and the glory in your beautiful yoni (Sanskrit for vagina or vulva).

Time for Exercise: 10 minutes to one hour

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Instructions for a yoni massage (yoni is the Tantric term for female genitals).

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 Most Tantric sacred lovemaking texts substitute more poetic terms to refer to the male and female sexual anatomy. Penis is lingam. Vagina is yoni. There are hundreds of other terms commonly used, such as golden rod, wand of light, jade stalk, tangled garden, honey pot and secret cave. Using such terminology is generally perceived to be more respectful, sensual and romantic. Certainly the language commonly heard on the streets such as cock and cunt, seems by comparison crude and disrespectful.

 Genital Sizes – Mix and Match

 The Kama Sutra, by Vatsyayana classifies the lingam and yoni according to size.

 
Male – Lingam: Hare (small) – Bull (medium) – Horse (large)

Female – Yoni: Deer (small) – Mare (medium) – Elephant (large)

 According to Vatsyayana (and common sense) matches of equal size are ideal, but lovers can manage the other combinations quite nicely. Certain positions are helpful when there is a mismatch of genital sizes.

 
When the lingam is small and the yoni large try the following positions.

•           Man on Top – “Missionary” (variation – legs over shoulders) - allows for maximum penetration

•           Woman on Top – “Crouching Tigress” (variation – “Sidesaddle”) – allows for the skillful use of PC squeezing by the woman

•           Opposites – “Backslide” – provides an ideal angle for stimulation of the G-Spot

 
When the lingam is large and the yoni is small try the following positions.

•           Man on Top – “Missionary” (variation – man supports his weight off the woman) – allows for holding back from maximum penetration

•           Woman on Top – “Tender Surrender” (variation – lying face to face) – the lady is in charge of penetration and thrusting

•           Face to Face – “One Crutch” – allows for holding back from maximum penetration

•           Sideways – “The Lover’s Scissors” – penetration is not deep and thrusting is relaxed

•           Other Positions – Pregnancy – “The Cradle” (variation II) – shallow penetration and relaxed thrusting

This is an excerpt from our eBook Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positions

All of the positions mentioned above will be added to this blog. Check back to see all of them.

 
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