My lover and I are having difficulties with her orgasm. Neither of us can bring her over the edge. Almost every time we are sexually intimate she says she gets so close then it starts to hurt. She says the same thing happens when she pleasures herself. I've never put pressure on her to have one though I believe it is seriously hurting our relationship because she gets so upset that it makes the experience not enjoyable for both of us. We've tried everything please help!
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There can be any number of reasons for this painful experience. I'd suggest having a thorough check-up with a gynecologist to rule out any physical causes.
More likely however I think this may be an emotional, energetic issue. So I am including for you the directions to the Yoni massage. This is a very slow, very gentle healing massage of the Yoni (vagina). It may take several massages to help your partner fully relax and open up to complete sexual pleasure. Take your time and be loving and caring. Don't try to get to orgasm with this, just give her your loving touch.
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"What are the different kinds of orgasm for women? Can a woman ejaculate?"
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This information is from our eBook "Awakening Women's Orgasm". It gives lots and lots of info for women and their partners on how to help women open up sexually.
Women can experience any number of many types of orgasm: clitoral orgasms, vaginal orgasms, ejaculatory orgasms, whole body orgasms, energy orgasms. Orgasms come in varying degrees of intensity, physical focus and duration. They can be a pleasurable little tingle or a body/mind/soul explosion. Some last for seconds, others minutes or even hours. While often stemming from genital stimulation, orgasms need not be confined to the genitals alone. Indeed as the following list of some types of orgasm shows—orgasms are available all over!
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