October 2, 2008

How do I set the pace for a slower more Tantric experience?

I am beginning my Tantric journey and am refraining from Ejaculating. My girlfriend has been away for three weeks and in another week I am seeing her for the first time since she left. Our lovemaking often is hard, fast, and wild, which is how she and I both liked it. However, I now want to make our sex life more tantric so my question is given the insane desire we will both have when we first get alone, how do I set the pace for a slower more tantric experience when she's just ready to jump on me?


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A Tantra quickie may sound like a bit of an oxymoron, but even Tantric lovers do have quickies. One of the best times for a quickie may very well be when you have been apart for some time and both of you are bursting with horniness for each other. After that first fast passionate encounter, you can then slowwwwww way down and savor every breath, every touch, every energetic twitch, every glance with the eyes, with you delaying ejaculation for hours after that. Delicious, yes.

 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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September 22, 2008

Can you please tell me what is that and why it happens?

 

When I suck my girlfriend’s breasts some liquid comes out that is bitter in taste. Can you please tell me what is that and why it happens? Is there is anything wrong?

 

 

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According to both Tantric (Indian) and Taoist (China) sexual teachings, a woman produces three distinct types of sexual secretions, from her mouth, breasts, and yoni (vagina). By absorbing these Threefold Elixirs a man gains energy.

The fluid from the breasts (“White Snow” in the Taoist tradition) is generated by sexual excitement, especially from a woman who is very loving and nurturing. Generally this fluid is described as slightly sweet and agreeable in taste. If your girlfriend’s is bitter it may be related to the modern diet which is overly processed and full of chemical additives. An organic diet with more natural and unprocessed foods would likely alter the taste of the secretions.

 

Al Link and Pala Copeland

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September 16, 2008

Do you think tantric toning actually works?

 "I bought this tantric toning video at the dollar store (lol), do you think tantric toning actually works?"


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I have not heard of "tantric toning" before your question, but I do know that sex can be helpful in controlling weight and depending upon how you support your body during different sexual positions you can certainly strengthen different muscle groups.
 

There are 3500 calories in a pound of fat. For every 3500 calories you burn (that you do not replace with food!) you will lose one pound of fat. Sexual intercourse burns approximately 150 calories per half hour. Here’s how that stacks up against some other activities that may be part of your fitness regime: yoga 114 calories per half hour, dancing - rock 129, walking - 3mph 153, weight training 153, canoeing - 2mph 153, volleyball 174.


According to one survey reported by the Ottawa Citizen, Canadians on average have sex 7.33 times per month, lasting approximately 24.4 minutes. That means that “Joe Canada” is burning off more than 10 thousand calories a year, or about 3 pounds, in a not particularly active sex life. Those who are more sexually active, into Tantra for instance where lovemaking lasts 4 hours, would burn up 600 calories a session. At once a week that’s 31,200 calories or 9 pounds per year. Considering that people put weight on gradually, slowly gaining 5-10 pounds per year until they are overweight, it’s not unrealistic to assume that regular sexual activity is one way to help maintain a healthy body weight.

 

 

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July 29, 2008

Soul Freedom Exercise (15): Yab-Yum Yum

 

SOUL FREEDOM EXERCISES
Exercises To Do Together

 

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The Tibetan Buddhist term yab-yum translates as father/mother, masculine/feminine or yang/yin. Yab-yum is the ultimate Tantric lovemaking position because it is ideal for sharing energy.

Time for Exercise: five minutes to one hour

Properties Required: each other

Steps:
In the yab-yum sexual position, the woman straddles the man as he sits cross-legged on the floor in the lotus position. He might have cushions under his knees for support and comfort, especially if he wants to maintain the position for more than a few minutes. Very firm Indian style pillows work perfectly. Alternatively, he might sit on a straight-backed chair and she will climb on top.

The lovers face each other with eyes open. They harmonize their breathing (see Harmony Breath). They can kiss, touching their tongues together. The eyes, breath, and tongues act as energy switches connecting the flow of hot sexual energy between the two lovers’ bodies.
1.    Build to a peak of sexual arousal using any other sexual positions or techniques, but do not climax.

2.    Assume the yab-yum position and become still.
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April 24, 2008

"I'm tantric," what does that mean?

If someone says "I'm tantric," what does that mean? 
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The popular meaning in most of the Western world would almost certainly be they go slowly in lovemaking (often extending the lovemaking to several hours). In addition to that, the man has learned to delay his ejaculation making it completely voluntary as to when and if he will ejaculate. Both men and women have learned to become aware of hot sexual energy as it builds in the genitals and have also learned how to move that
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February 29, 2008

The past couple of month's I am having a hard time ejaculating

 
I am a married 67 year old male We had a good sex life for the 45 years we have been married. The past couple of month's I am having a hard time ejaculating. When we have intercourse or oral sex I stay as hard as a rock and feeling very horny but I just cant get over the hump to come. I usually come by masturbating with my wife helping me and that sometimes takes 5 min. My doctor has injected me with about 3/4 cc testosterone for 2 months. Except for feeling more horny and make my penis thicker it did not solve the problem. I told him that I have no erection problems. He said that is unusual but that is as far as it went. I had a prostate operation 4 years ago as I had problems urinating and now I ejaculate in my bladder, but I have a very strong climax. I tried Viagra a year ago just for fun but all it did give me a terrific head ache for a day.
 
I have read all of your brochures and I am hoping you can recommend one of your product that may help alleviate my problem.
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October 11, 2007

Sacred Sex – Body Freedom (Part 5 of 7)

"Sacred Sex – Body Freedom"
(Part 5 of 7)

Although most couples want a really good sex life, many are afraid that it’s unattainable because they personally don’t know how to create it. They bury their sexual dreams under the weight of misinformation that says “sex is something you should just naturally know how to do because you’re in a body.” However, even though your body desires and has the potential for sublime sex, it doesn’t automatically know the artistry of lovemaking. You must teach the body. Like any great art, the art of sexual ecstasy must be learned. Sexual knowledge and skill develop over a lifetime. If you travel through your sexual life in a learning mode, then your sexual experience will continue to improve over the years. It will grow with you as you grow.


Sexual knowledge and skill develop over a lifetime

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October 1, 2007

4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra Recommends www.yabyummy.com

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August 27, 2007

Tantra & Kama Sutra Sex Positions - "Foreplay(Dancing and Kissing)"

Foreplay-"Dancing"

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Lighten up! Fun, playful activities such as dancing set a sensuous mood for sacred loving. If you ever feel stuck, not knowing what to do next during your hours of sacred love play, the natural thing to do is touch your bodies together and dancing is the perfect way to do that. It will get you out of your head and into your body. Then before you know it, you are back in the throes of passion again, absorbed in the glorious now moment.

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August 25, 2007

Tantra & Kama Sutra Sex Positions - "Foreplay(Conversation with wine)"

"Foreplay"

“One of the most wonderful things about latter life lovemaking is that foreplay can last up to a month.” Loving Life After 60: Celebrating the Autumn of Your Life by Tom Paugh

Surveys have shown that typical lovemaking lasts under thirty minutes from start to finish, in virtually every country around the planet. Tantric lovers, on the other hand, extend lovemaking over a period of hours. Extending lovemaking not only increases your pleasure, but also allows for a proper appreciation and honoring of the gender differences between the warriors of love. It usually takes a woman much longer than a man to come to full sexual arousal. Unfortunately lovemaking that finishes in less than thirty minutes may leave the lady frustrated and dissatisfied with her experience. Taking lots of time with foreplay is therefore an important part of Tantric lovemaking.

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