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Your penis size is in the normal range, but it always looks smaller when looking down at your own penis. Look at it in a mirror to get a better impression. What matters is that your lady is happy with it and you know how to use it to make her happy.

 
Your frequency of lovemaking is pretty low. Since you mention this in the context of talking about masturbation, I am assuming that you

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I really could you your advice. I'm stuck, and not feeling worthy right now, especially when he has helped me open up my goddess in me. I want to help him. I've tried to discuss this once only that I do understand because of loneliness I'm just worried. I'm very frustrated, also sad, but I am very much in love with my boyfriend. I'm 49 years old and my partner is 50… He has not been in very many long term relationships, longest one has been 8 months; for myself I was married for many years then divorced because of a unhealthy relationship. My second relationship lasted almost 10 years then my boyfriend died in 2006. I met my new man in April of this year. we have great chemistry, laughing, spirituality, cry together, loving, enjoy Tantra which he introduced me to.


We love the intimacy it brings us. I could go on, but I need to ask this question. He told me he used to masturbate allot, and give himself many orgasms. That's cool, I have too. But I think he is addicted to masturbating. I asked him if he still does and he was open and honest about it. He says not anymore, I truly want to believe him but research from what little I found was that a man gets a high from doing it himself, he has let himself go into me once after 6 months the other times we go a very long time making love because of the Tantra we can both stop the ejaculation process (I Know that's great) but he can't ejaculate

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Hello,

Sexy Spiritual Relationships Launch – September 15, 2009 – First Release of Complete Tantra Video Home Study Course
 

On September 15, 2009 Pala Copeland and Al Link will be releasing for the first time their complete Tantra Video Home Study Course at Sexy Spiritual Relationships.
 

This course has been two years in the making. Instruction is presented with over 35 original videos, and full text explanations drawn from their published book 28 Days to Ecstasy for Couples: Tantra Step by Step. By the way, that book was also two years in writing, so release of this Tantra Video Home Study Course has actually been four years in the making.

And the wait was well worth it. When you see this material I think you will be surprised and amazed at the quality of it. The instruction is broken down into segments of practice you do one day at a time over 28 consecutive (preferable but not essential) days.
 

Each day you are presented with several simple exercises (you don’t just watch and read, you must do things!) and over the 28 days your knowledge and skill naturally progresses with your practice, so that by the time you have completed the course you may well be experiencing not only the best sex of your lives, but also a powerful energetic connection, a profound and deep emotional connection, and a spiritual transformation as you awaken the God and Goddess within.


Pala and Al present this package of video and text instruction with humility, not pretending to be Hollywood slick, explicit but definitely not pornographic, and the featured couple are attractive but not intimidatingly beautiful; they are ordinary people, probably just like yourself.
 

As Pala and Al suggest, with this easy to follow approach, any couple can quickly graduate from friction sex to energy sex to soul sex and be regularly experiencing sexual spiritual ecstasy in less than 5 weeks! At the very least you will be having fun, great sex and lots of orgasms!

You really owe it to each other to check this out right now, because during the days of this launch you can get full premium access to Sexy Spiritual Relationships for only $4.77. This is less than the cost of a single movie ticket, so get in on this now. This membership is normally $14.77.

 

www.sexyspiritualrelationships.com/launch09-15.html


 

All Good Things,

Al and Pala

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Many men diligently practice for years to be able to do what you are describing happens without any effort at all. Be delighted with such a wonderful gift.

 
Tantric and Taoist sacred sexuality practices both emphasize delaying ejaculation for long periods of time, e.g., days, weeks and months between ejaculations, or at the extreme no ejaculation ever. We do not recommend this extreme position.
 

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Your lovemaking has become far too mechanical and almost totally goal oriented. Too mechanical means you have learned some good moves which enable you to come to orgasm at the same instant, but this is merely sexual technique. The goal orientation is trying to get to simultaneous orgasm, as if that is all the lovemaking was for. Essentially your lovemaking is now a simple business transaction exchange; “you do this for me and I’ll do that for you.” There is not much room for love and affection in such a transaction.


Drop the goal of getting to orgasm and shift to a pleasure orientation. Focus on giving and receiving pleasure as an expression of your love and affection for each other in the now moment. Otherwise, it is only going to be more of the same, which is great orgasms together, but ending with both of you feeling used, abused, and neglected, with a big hole in the middle of your heart. The only way to replace the hole in your heart is to put a giggle there. What will put a giggle there is when you feel respected, cared for, adored, appreciated and loved.


What brings those wonderful qualities into lovemaking is the foreplay and afterplay, which always includes intimate conversation in which you acknowledge each other, complement each other, express your appreciation for the things you admire about each other, remember past things you did together when you were feeling in love, and planning future things you will do together as lovers enjoying each other’s company as you go through life and grow old together.
 

Make an effort to give and receive non-sexual affection (including non-sexual touching) and then bring that quality of caring for each other into your lovemaking.

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A male age 27 is young enough that unless there is some existing health challenge, he can engage in sexual acts as often as he wants to. The question of ejaculation is interesting for all males to consider. It would be a great advantage for a young male to begin learning how to delay the ejaculation response, cultivate a high sexual energy charge, and circulate that energy up through the body rather than release it with an ordinary ejaculation. This makes possible orgasm without ejaculation, and multiple orgasms. Accumulating this energy and working with it consciously can yield a significant competitive advantage (in sport, art, business, etc.) to any male who masters it.

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1) How, why and when did you start teaching workshops?

Al and Pala have been practicing Tantra sacred sexuality since 1987. We started on this spiritual path when we had a spontaneous mystical experience during our extended lovemaking. At one point during lovemaking when we had become very still and quiet, an energetic current began to course through our bodies bringing to us a superb and sublime physical pleasure from head to toe. Simultaneous with that ecstatic pleasure was an awareness of no boundaries between our physical bodies. We merged as one. Then our consciousness expanded in an instant out to infinity and we merged with all and everything. After that experience we began to search for reports by others about similar experiences and discovered Tantric and Taoist sacred sexuality practices dating back thousands of years in India and China. We began to explore the teachings of those spiritual systems and sacred sex became our hobby. After approximately 10 years of continuous practice, we had experienced such a profound spiritual awakening and a flourishing of our love in relationship together, that we decided to share what we had learned with others. We offered our first workshops late in 1997.


 
2) What draws you to work in sexual education and health?

Our relationship is our spiritual practice and sacred sexuality is the primary form of that practice. We are relationship mentors and believe that the spiritual path we have created, Enlightenment for Two is a path any couple can follow if they are willing to make the effort to learn how to create love for a lifetime together. Following this path provides couples with many benefits including these:

            Relationship Happiness

            Extraordinary Health - Super Boosted Immune System

            Ecstatic Sexuality

            Graceful Aging

            High Energy

            Super Creativity

            Peak Perfomance

            Abundance

            Love

            One of the shortest quickest paths available leading all the way to Enlightenment for Two

 

3) Can you tell me a bit about why you are passionate about this workshop topic?

We only teach what we actually do to keep our own relationship, hot, sexy, vital, and flourishing. We have been sharing our approach to sacred sexuality and relationship happiness for over a decade with hundreds of couples and virtually all of them have benefited by what they have learned. We have also saved many an marriage with this teaching.

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Is sounds like you must be using control to stop the ejaculation. This is not a viable long-term strategy. Control is the enemy of ecstasy as control stops the flow of energy. The energy must move and flow if you are going to have any higher more spiritual experience. Focus your attention on what you do want, not on what you don't want. Up to now I would say you must have been focusing on what you don't want, ejaculation, but instead, focus on what you do want, to move and circulate the energy away from your genitals, up through the rest of your body.


It is like a pressure cooker in the genitals, and as the hot sexual energy builds there, it will become painful, like an inflammation, if that energy is not released. Since you are able to stop the ejaculation, you are experiencing this discomfort. However, if you successfully move the energy away from your prostate, up through the rest of your body, you will not have any of that discomfort, even if you do not ejaculate.


You move the energy by doing PC squeezes, i.e., squeeze the muscles in the genital area as if you were stopping the flow of urine mid-stream. Breath in a slow deep

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For most women sex and love are almost always closely connected. For them any sexual act is an expression of love, either a giving or receiving of love, or sometimes a search for it. For some men, sexual acts can be completely disconnected from any emotional feelings, a purely physical activity with no emotional significance. I am guessing that is the case with you because of how you worded the question. For such a man, it may be, and often is the case, that their heart will open to feeling emotions, affection and love only after a satisfying sexual encounter including an ejaculation. For some unfortunate men (and for their unfortunate women) they won’t allow themselves to feel anything, ever, even after great physical sex.