YAB-YUM YUM

The Tibetan Buddhist term yab-yum translates as father/mother, masculine/feminine or yang/yin. Yab-yum is the ultimate Tantric lovemaking position because it is ideal for sharing energy.

Time for Exercise: five minutes to one hour

Properties Required: each other

Steps:
In the yab-yum sexual position, the woman straddles the man as he sits cross-legged on the floor in the lotus position. He might have cushions under his knees for support and comfort, especially if he wants to maintain the position for more than a few minutes. Very firm Indian style pillows work perfectly. Alternatively, he might sit on a straight-backed chair and she will climb on top.

The lovers face each other with eyes open. They harmonize their breathing (see Harmony Breath). They can kiss, touching their tongues together. The eyes, breath, and tongues act as energy switches connecting the flow of hot sexual energy between the two lovers’ bodies.
1.    Build to a peak of sexual arousal using any other sexual positions or techniques, but do not climax.

2.    Assume the yab-yum position and become still.

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Here are 2 articles that suggest techniques for improving the taste of your cum.

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    "We've heard that Tantra teaches the male to not ejaculate because of the energy loss. I guess we will never really be able to accept the total lack of ejaculation. I read and hear so little in Tantra about the enormous reward and gift ejaculation is and can be. It is so special for a woman to feel and enjoy the ejaculation of her partner. Feeling this bundle of energy and force explode like a million stars inside me makes me want to be a Tantra rebel with a good cause. What if the semen is collected in a glass and drunk by the male, or contained in my mouth after oral sex and then shared with my husband? A few members of our regular group are using these methods and seem happy with them and report no weakness, energy loss or reduced life appetite.  Can swallowing my husbands semen at all affect the life-force/character of our unborn baby, due in almost 5 months? And how long before birth should we stop having Tantra sex. Should we only use special positions?"

 

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"Show me what you like"

 

Visually, one of the most erotic things is to watch your lover masturbate in complete lusty sexual abandon. A rare, extraordinary treat is to see her ejaculate with the sunshine streaming in through a window (or if you are lying outside), resulting in a kaleidoscope of exotic colors as her squirting juicy nectar diffuses and refracts the rays of light. 

We encourage lovers to ask for what they want. You can’t get what you want if your lover does not know what that is. What better way to communicate your lusty desires than to show her how you want to be touched, by touching yourself as she watches adoringly. This requires surrender, a challenging but essential skill for all great male lovers. Many men are more comfortable being the initiator, being in charge, being the doer and giver. But, in Tantric sacred loving, the lead is smoothly passed from one to the other, requiring that both are equally skilled at giving and receiving pleasure.

Men are like fire (heating up and burning out quickly), while women are like water (slowly coming to a boil, but then rolling along for quite some time). If the man has ejaculated and lost his erection, the lady may “finish off what was started” as he holds her lovingly. Or, it may be desirable for the man to take a rest during extended lovemaking, before returning to active intercourse. This is a perfect opportunity for the lady to show her man how she likes to be touched, and how she comes with manual stimulation of her clitoris, her “love button”, whose only purpose is pleasure.

Men, put on an erotic performance for your lady. Dare to give her a sexy strip tease and exotic dance. If you have mastered contracting one muscle at a time while holding all the others completely relaxed, show the observant goddess how you can lift your testicles, bob your penis, tighten your anus or perineum. Culminate with a masturbation ceremony, while she cheers you on with appreciative exclamations of delight. Perhaps she prefers that you come onto her body or into her luscious mouth to end the session. Ask your lady what is her fancy.

 

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