Most readers will find the original Burton translation of the Kama Sutra of limited value. Those translations that try to preserve the exact language of the original will be quite a boring read. But some of the modern translations, for example our

Steps:

1.Consciously identify the secrets you keep and the emotional barriers you have erected.

2.Make a list, including even your most guarded secrets, and put names (or descriptions) to the barriers you have entrenched around your heart. This might take days or weeks, not just a few minutes

I have frequent wet dreams which are messy and embarrassing. Is there any way to stop them?

I have just started looking into Tantra Sex.  I have been abused emotionally and physically (very deeply emotionally).  I have been in counseling and have also discovered that I have very little male testosterone in my body.  I have taken male testosterone but am at the point where I leave my body when it comes to sex.  I have been married to a wonderful husband for the last 27 years who has stuck by me all these years, both of us not knowing why I am the way I am.  Counseling has uncovered so many answers.  I am afraid to get in touch with my sexual side, even though my husband is understanding. I have very many teenage thoughts in my mind, and won't let the adult take over.  This is just my sexual being in a nutshell.  I would like to know where I should start trying to change avenues to grasp on to my femininity.  I'm not sure if my husband agrees with tantra sex.  Could you please try and let me know where I should start.  Thanks for your help.