Asking for What You Want Sexually Part 2

Asking your lover for what you want and giving your lover whatever has been requested are two sides of the same coin—a yin/yang balance of receiving/giving, and passive/active pleasure. Just as it is important to learn to freely ask for what pleases you, it is also important to know that you can give unconditionally. This [...]

Asking for What You Want Sexually Part 1

It may be difficult to ask for what you want in bed if you do not know what that is. Furthermore, you may not have any language to use to ask for what you want. Here are some simple exercises to help you discover what you like and do not like, and to create a [...]

I have a doubt regarding sex with my husband

I have a doubt regarding sex with my husband. Is it true that when couples participate in sex for the first time there will be bleeding? I have participated with my husband and I didn’t get any bleeding, but had severe pain. ANSWER Thanks for your question. Although bleeding during first-time intercourse has generally been [...]

I have been getting nausea before and during my period.

I have been getting nausea before and during my period. When I started my period I wasn’t bleeding very heavily and I had sex and know I am spotting. What does that mean? ANSWER The symptoms you describe can mean a lot of different things, so the best advice I can give you if this [...]

My boyfriend never ejaculates

My boyfriend who is 55 years old can’t ejaculate. He gets an erection after a couple of hours of rest ( he is a truck driver) but he never ejaculates! Is there something I’m doing wrong? I am 48 years old and enjoy sex very much and I can get multiple orgasms. ANSWER This problem [...]

My husband thinks he doesn’t satisfy me

I am a female age 34 and nothing ever comes out when I have an orgasm. Is  this normal? Do I not let myself finish? My husband thinks he doesn’t satisfy me because nothing comes out when we are making love, or with a vibrator. ANSWER You are absolutely perfectly normal. And hey isn’t it [...]

She is so tight now that I have a hard time getting in.

I have been with the same woman for about seven years we have a child together and have lived together for almost as long.   My question is about how tight her vagina is.   I am not very thick down there and she has always felt good but never real tight until about a week ago.  [...]