How can I reassure my boyfriend that I was a virgin if I did not bleed with our first experience of sexual intercourse?
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Not every woman bleeds the first time she has intercourse. In fact, many don’t. There are lots of ways the hymen (the “skin cover” or very thin membrane that partially covers the opening to the vagina) can be stretched or broken—everything from using a tampon for menstrual periods, to penetration with fingers during foreplay, to sports activities or vigorous exercise.
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"How can I know that she is totally satisfied with our sexual intercourse? I need some physical indicators."
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First of all, to really enjoy and be totally satisfied with intercourse, your lover needs to be thoroughly ready for it. That means it's important to spend lots of time kissing and caressing her, telling her how wonderful and beautiful she is, and exciting and pleasing her all over her body before there's any penetration. You might manually or orally stimulate her clitoris to bring her to orgasm or very close to it before you slip your penis into her vagina.
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Kama Sutra Sexual Intercourse Positions - Sitting
The classic Tantric lovemaking position is the YabYum (father / mother; yin / yang) position. We sometimes refer to it as the yum-yum position. Use it for moving and exchanging sexual energy when you are at a peak of sexual arousal and want to ride the wave of bliss rather than to continue building more hot sexual energy or end the lovemaking with the man ejaculating.
“YabYum” (variation – classic lotus)
The man sits cross-legged, in the lotus position, with his partner on top of his lap. You may support his thighs and back with pillows. When you are ready to resume more active lovemaking, you can easily roll from this position into man or woman on top or face-to-face on your sides while still maintaining your genital connection.
Excerpted from our Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positions eBook.
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Kama Sutra Sexual Intercourse Positions
Woman on Top Variation – “Slipslide”
“As her hips begin to churn, her head, flung back, bobs ever faster; she scratches, pummels you with small fists, fastens her teeth in your neck, doing unto you what you've often done unto her.”
Love Teachings of Kama Sutra, by Vatsyayana, translated by Indra Sinha
The lovers have moved quickly in a swoon of uncontrollable passion joining their flesh together in the dance of love. Not having taken even enough time to disrobe completely, they ravish each other’s eager bodies. The lady overwhelmed with her lusty desire, comes instantly with the first penetration and goes on to build from one amazing orgasmic rush, each more intense than the last, until she falls forward, exhausted, but with her consciousness flying free of any limitations of the physical body. From this vantage point her soul essence merges with that of her lover, transcending any boundaries that formerly separated them.
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Kama Sutra Sexual Intercourse Positions
Woman on Top
“Crouching Tigress” (variation – “Grasshopper”)
“Sitting erect, grip your lover's waist and pull her on to you, your loins continuously leaping together with a sound like the flapping of elephants' ears.”
Love Teachings of Kama Sutra, by Vatsyayana, translated by Indra Sinha
The outline of the lovers in this position resembles the shape of a grasshopper. Use it most effectively when you have built to an intense energy charge and wish to come together, allowing the joyful experience of mutual orgasm. The man may or may not ejaculate, as is his desire, if he has learned the mastery necessary to separate his orgasm from ejaculation.
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Woman on Top Variation – “Sleeping Dragon”
“When her passion has ebbed, she should rest, bending forward to lay her forehead upon yours without disturbing your yoked bodies: it won't be long before desire stirs again.”
Love Teachings of Kama Sutra, by Vatsyayana, translated by Indra Sinha
This woman-on-top position allows both lovers to rest between rounds of more active lovemaking. As the lovers lie still it is the perfect time to whisper adoring words into each other’s ears, or dissolve into the ecstasy of silence. In Tantric sacred loving over a period of hours, lovers build to one peak of sexual arousal, rest, resume more active lovemaking that builds to another peak of sexual arousal, rest again, and so on. By building to multiple peaks of sexual arousal (six, nine, a dozen or more), lovers accumulate an intense charge of hot sexual energy, which they circulate through their individual bodies and back and forth between each other.
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