I masturbate around 3-4 times a week. I’ve got a girlfriend and we do have sex like every 2-3 weeks.and she does satisfy me alot. Don’t know why I still need to masturbate? My penis is a bit bent towards the left as well. Is this coz i masturbate? I also feel my penis size is not great but my girlfriend loves it and feels that it is massive. It’s about 5-6 inches
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Your penis size is in the normal range, but it always looks smaller when looking down at your own penis. Look at it in a mirror to get a better impression. What matters is that your lady is happy with it and you know how to use it to make her happy.
Your frequency of lovemaking is pretty low. Since you mention this in the context of talking about masturbation, I am assuming that you
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I’m 15 years old, and have a crush on my boyfriend’s mom who is 30 years old. She has 3 kids. I really care for her and know she is unhappy with her husband. I don’t know how to approach her and tell her I like her cause she'll probably slap me or tell my parents.
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Trust your heart. If you really care for her, let her know, but under the circumstances, i.e., she is married with kids, and the age difference, including that you are still a minor, makes the probability of her responding favorably to your affections, rather small, but anything is possible. As Wayne Gretzky says, "100% of the shots you don't take, don't go in." So go for it and if it doesn't work out, move on.
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My wife's sister is always stating how her kids love me and want to be around me. She also takes up for me when ever anyone puts me down or my wife and i have an argument. Do you think that my sister in law has a interest in me? I get mixed reactions from my sister in law. She also states that she wishes her husband was like me. The other night she walked past me and touched my elbow. Please help with an answer.
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I could never advise someone to pursue a romantic and/or sexual relationship with his wife’s sister. Acting on this impulse and desire you have can only lead to a world of grief for everyone involved. If you are unhappy in your marriage, get help to fix it, or get out. Only then pursue other options with other women, possibly including your wife’s sister, if she is available at that time.
The only way to navigate safely through the treacherous waters you find yourself in, is to sort out friendship from both romance and sex. The skill needed is to be able to sublimate any sexual energy aroused by your interaction with your wife’s sister, so that energy is moved up away from the genitals to the heart chakra, where it can be safely experienced as affection, friendship and non-sexual love rather than experienced as sexual desire.
Doing basic squeezing of the genital muscles (as if you were stopping the flow of urine mid-stream), while visualizing the energy moving up the spinal column to the crown of the head, then flowing down the front of your body to the heart (the center point between the nipples), can help accomplish this sublimation of sexual energy and its transformation into unconditional non-sexual love.
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