From time to time, I like to put my wedding band on my penis, just over the shaft.  It feels good and I want to make love to my wife with it on.  I kind of think it is romantic. What do you think?

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I would not recommend putting your wedding band onto the shaft of your penis. As the penis enlarges the fit of the ring will become very tight, quite likely extremely tight. As you lose yourself in pleasure, you may not realize how tight it is, and this could cause serious injury to the erectile tissue in the areas where the ring is located. Such damage is not reversible, and the result could be a deformed erection. Another issue is that the ring could actually slip off and be deposited into the vagina. This is not likely to be dangerous (there is nowhere for it to go and it cannot enter the cervix), but if you forget or don't notice that the ring is in the vagina, and she goes to the bathroom, it could then fall out and be lost in the toilet.

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Anal sex isn't for everyone, but here are some ideas to assist you.


The anus has a lot of nerve endings and so anal sex can be quite enjoyable, but only if it is done properly.


The receiving partner, the one who is being anally penetrated, must be very relaxed, so that the anus opens happily. You should also be aroused, very sexually excited before anal sex. Tender tickling around the anus, and massage of the buttocks and the anus can help.


It's also very important that the active partner, the one penetrating the anus, proceeds with gentleness and respect. Internal tissues are very tender and thin, and there is no natural lubricant. If you husband is pushing his way in hard and fast it's no wonder you don't enjoy it. It is understandable that he would be very excited by anal intercourse — "opposites" sex positions are more animalistic, impersonal, and often very arousing. But, he must remember to add affection as well.


Ask him if you can experiment with anal penetration on him. Use a latex glove to manually explore his anus, or try various types of sextoys that are specifically designed for anal play, like butt plugs, anal beads, and the Aneros prostate massager. This will give him a firsthand experience of what anal penetration feels like, and a understanding of the need for tenderness. With the proper attention on your part, he may come to thoroughly enjoy himself.

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Here are some resources to help you learn about different sexual positions and ejaculation mastery.

EBooks

Tantra and Kama Sutra Sexual Positions eBook

 
Kama Sutra Sexual Positions with Liberator Shapes eBook

 
Voluntary Ejaculation and Male Multiple Orgasm eBook


Published Books

Soul Sex: Tantra for Two


The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Supercharged Sex with the Kama Sutra

 
Sensual Love Secrets for Couples: The Four Freedoms of Body, Mind, Heart and Soul


28 Days to Ecstasy for Couples: Tantra Step by Step

 

Kama Sutra Home Study Course (with videos)

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Be clear on whether the problem is your own perception and feelings about your penis, or if this message is really coming from your partner.


There is no real evidence that penis size is the most critical factor in sexual satisfaction for a woman. In your question you include your desire to “make her attain orgasm fast.” This could be a big part of the problem rather than a solution to it.


Here are a few pointers.

1. Slow down. Slow wayyyyyyyyyyyyy dowwwwwwwwwwwwn!

2. Drop the performance goal of trying to get to orgasm and focus on giving and receiving pleasure over a period of hours rather than trying to conclude your lovemaking in a few minutes.

3. Make sure there is a deep emotional connection. Make sure she knows how much you care for, love and adore her. Make this actual and real, not pretend.

4. Take a very long lead up, or foreplay, before there is any attempt at penetration. How long? At least 20 minutes, preferably an hour or more.

5. Try to assist and encourage your partner to have a clitoral orgasm before there is any intercourse.

6. Learn techniques of ejaculation mastery, so you can delay your ejaculation over a period of hours, during which there can be several sessions of intercourse, rather than having intercourse be one time leading quickly to ejaculation.

 
Doing these things will ensure that her vagina is ready for penetration including activation of the g-spot as well as all of the many other super-sensitive orgasmic spots within the vaginal canal. She must be juicy and well lubricated before any attempt at penetration. This is one indication that the vagina is ready.
 

Deep penetration is not required for a woman to have massive orgasms with intercourse.


However, many women do appreciate full penetration all the

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"How can I get my partner to experiment with anal sex?"

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There is an art to anal sex which requires learning technique and developing skill over time with practice. The first step is to gain your partner’s agreement to explore anal sex, with an understanding that you both have to learn some things if it is to be a wonderful pleasurable experience. Include a discussion of each partner’s beliefs and assumptions, as well as any fear that may be present.

Most sophisticated lovers do learn the art of anal sex and do enjoy it immensely. Unfortunately many people, both men and women, have strong taboos against anal sex. Many fear anal penetration for a number of reasons. For example, it may have overtones of homosexuality between male lovers, or that it is hygienically dangerous. Others hold religious beliefs which condemn anal sex as sinful.

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