Why is it when I have sex doggie style it hurts me; it feels like they are hitting my bladder?
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It could be the angle or depth of penetration that's causing you discomfort. It could also be the speed and forcefulness of thrusting. Other factors can be the size of your vagina compared to the size of your partner's penis.
Here are some suggestions to experiment with:
1. try only engaging in rear-entry positions later on in lovemaking, when you are very aroused. Your vagina will engorge, expand and lubricate more as you become more excited so there's room for more of him.
2. try slower, less deep thrusts
3. try changing the angle of penetration — for instance, if you're normally on all fours with your back straight, parallel to the bed, try bending over further, down on your elbows or bend your back so that your chest is on the bed.
If none of these help, you might consider a gynecological exam to see if there's anything out of alignment internally.
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Is it at all difficult to apply such an ancient art to modern day living?
Most readers will find the original Burton translation of the Kama Sutra of limited value. Those translations that try to preserve the exact language of the original will be quite a boring read. But some of the modern translations, for example our
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Can the Kama Sutra be explained in a summary?
The Indian scholar Vatsyayana gathered and edited the manuscripts now known as the Kama Sutra sometime during the fourth century around 350 C.E., approximately 1,600 years ago. This is the most famous love manual of all time, offering timeless advice to lovers on how to make a relationship successful.
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"Is there a particular sexual intercourse position that is best for the first time we make love?"
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A bad first experience can be difficult to reverse or overcome later, so get the first time right.
There are many positions for sexual intercourse and no particular reason why you should try one first, although it is probably most common for the man to be on top the first time, but that is not any kind of rule.
Far more important is that you go slowly and not go for penetration until she is completely ready for it and wants it totally. Good indications that she is ready, willing, and able will be that she is well lubricated, moving her body (not lying still), making noise (not being quiet), pulling you tight and close with her body, and that she is asking, even begging for you to enter her.
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Shallow-Deep Thrusting Technique
A superb thrusting technique that brings great pleasure to a woman and helps a man to last is a combination of deep and shallow thrusts. By shallow thrusts we mean your penis only enters 11/2 to 2 inches inside your partner. This first couple of inches is the most sensitive part of a woman's vagina. Deep thrusts mean your penis enters as fully as you can.
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Opposites - "Gorilla"
One of the most popular positions for a quickie is to bend your lady over the back of a chair or to lean her onto the edge of a table or bed and take her in full ripeness.
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“YabYum” (variation – “full see saw”)
Experiment with making sound at each chakra point, chanting or "toning" together to focus the energy. You will be amazed at how beautiful the sound is when you are working with such a high sexual charge of life force energy. Go ahead and have some fun.
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“YabYum” (variation – “see saw”)
Your attention at this point is on working with the life force energy that has been built up during active lovemaking. Do some PC squeezing (Kegels) to help you circulate the hot sexual energy away from your genitals up through your body through the higher chakra centers. Try to exchange your sexual / spiritual energy with your lover, and ultimately use it to make a direct connection with the Divine.
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“YabYum” (variation – sitting in a chair)
The term Yab Yum is actually a Tantric name. In the Kama Sutra this position is called the Embrace of Milk and Water.
If the lotus position is too difficult, the man may sit on the edge of the bed or on a straight-backed chair with his legs out in front of him and feet on the floor. Once you are snugly connected, be still, look into each other's eyes, harmonize your breathing, connect your mouths and tongues with a kiss, or touch third eye points.
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Kama Sutra Sexual Intercourse Positions - Sitting
The classic Tantric lovemaking position is the YabYum (father / mother; yin / yang) position. We sometimes refer to it as the yum-yum position. Use it for moving and exchanging sexual energy when you are at a peak of sexual arousal and want to ride the wave of bliss rather than to continue building more hot sexual energy or end the lovemaking with the man ejaculating.
“YabYum” (variation – classic lotus)
The man sits cross-legged, in the lotus position, with his partner on top of his lap. You may support his thighs and back with pillows. When you are ready to resume more active lovemaking, you can easily roll from this position into man or woman on top or face-to-face on your sides while still maintaining your genital connection.
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