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One of the most important things to remember when pleasing a woman is to go very very slowly. Start with light soft touches and only progress to firmer, harder and faster as her arousal builds. Start at the extremities and work your way in toward the hot spots of breasts and genitals. Don’t go near the genitals until she is already fully aroused. Spend lots of time kissing. Speak loving words of adoration and affection in her ears. When you find something that works, in other words, she lets you know with sound and movement that she likes your touch, then keep doing that until she indicates she is ready for a change. Sound and movement mean yes, this is working, this turns her on; quiet and still means this is not working and you should try something different, unless of course you are deliberately in a phase of quiet and stillness.


Our book The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Supercharged Kama Sutra provides detailed instruction on all aspects of foreplay, sexual intercourse positions, and afterplay.

Al Link and Pala Copeland

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There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. Women can experience all kinds of orgasms, from clitoral orgasm, to orgasm during intercourse, to full-body orgasms and more. Although your body has the potential for all these experiences, you must LEARN how. Orgasms are something we learn to have. According to lots of studies more than 50% of women do not experience orgasm during intercourse, especially without clitoral stimulation at the same time. However, if you want to you can learn!

 
For starters, read this article we wrote for Urban Male Magazine, "Freeing the Female Orgasm"


You might also want to get our ebook "Awakening Women's Orgasm" which goes into great detail about how to learn to become fully orgasmic.

Read all about it here: www.tantra-sex.com


Enjoy your quest for many types of orgasm, have fun exploring together. It's a great journey to be on!

Al Link and Pala Copeland

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Ask yourself the following questions and the answers may give you a clue why this is happening, what caused it, and possibly what to do to reverse the condition.


First, is it really a problem? Are there any undesirable aspects to having the sperm thick? Are there any other symptoms that accompany the thick sperm? Is thick sperm a sudden change from what you may have believed to be normal sperm (not thick)? When did this changer first appear? Were there any other changes in your lifestyle (e.g., diet, quantity of water consumed, medications, drug use, frequency of ejaculation, etc.), or in your body (e.g., some medical condition such as symptoms of burning urination, difficulty urinating, discharge from the penis, etc.) at that same time or now; something you could associate or connect to the thickening of the sperm?

 
One hypothesis is that you have low testosterone. Low testosterone may also show up as any of the following symptoms: weight gain, reduced muscle tone and strength, low energy, and mild irritability. If you suspect it is related to low testosterone, you doctor can do a blood test to determine the level of free testosterone in your system, and if it is abnormally low, he has various options to help you increase your testosterone.


Basically, if there are no other symptoms or complications associated with the thick sperm, and if this is not a sudden change, i.e., it is normal for you, then it is probably not a problem and nothing needs to be done about it. If it is a problem, if it is associated with other undesirable symptoms, then see your doctor to get it checked out.


Another hypothesis is that thick sperm is the best sperm!

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It is not unheard of, but somewhat unusual for any woman not to like receiving oral sex. So I hope this information boosts your confidence in trying oral sex with your wife. Almost certainly she will like this aspect of lovemaking.


Of course, some skill on your part would be helpful, so you may want to consult a video or two showing you how to perform

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Your situation is a common one, many women share this dilemma. When you're tired and stressed, it's hard to wake up your sex drive.


You need to find ways to get more rest. Can you husband help out more with the kids and the housework? Do you have anyone else who can help you with these tasks? Is it possible to have

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Your penis size is in the normal range, but it always looks smaller when looking down at your own penis. Look at it in a mirror to get a better impression. What matters is that your lady is happy with it and you know how to use it to make her happy.

 
Your frequency of lovemaking is pretty low. Since you mention this in the context of talking about masturbation, I am assuming that you

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My penis is 4.6 inches  and I’m 18 and I’m scared to have sex with my girlfriend even though she really wants to. Please help me. I wish I could make it bigger

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The average penis length is approximately 5-6 inches, so yours is only slightly shorter than average, but remember average means approximately half are below and half are above to arrive at that length. So you are certainly within a normal penis length range. I might also mention that your penis always looks shorter to yourself, because you are looking down at it from that particular angle. Furthermore, most women will tell you that it is not size that they care about (and if your woman really cares about that then I suggest you find a different woman. What really matters to the vast majority of women is how you use what you do have. The real challenge for you is not to change your penis size, a very difficult thing to do (perhaps impossible), but for  you to learn the knowledge and skill to become a master lover. This is exactly what we teach men to do at our workshops and at our membership website. So stop worrying about your size and start learning how to be a great lover.

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Condoms are almost perfect protection, but there can be problems. For example the condom could slip off if not put onto the penis to the full length, or if the man remains inside you after he comes and the penis shrinks rapidly, it is quite easy for the condom to slip off. Absolutely, do not keep having active thrusting intercourse after he ejaculates and starts losing his erection. As soon as his penis starts to shrink after the ejaculation, he should pull out to avoid any risk of leakage of sperm into the vagina.


Another risk is that the condom could become compromised with a tear or pinhole leak. These things don't happen frequently but they do happen. Condoms are normally made from latex. But latex deteriorates if it comes into contact with oil, e.g., massage oil. Never use an oil based lubricant if you are using a condom. There are also vinyl condoms and they do not deteriorate with contact with oil. Also, there are water based and silicone based lubricants that are safe for use with latex condoms.


Ordinarily, if the man is wearing a condom, there is no need to pull out at the point of ejaculation, since all sperm will be contained inside the condom and none will gain entry to the vagina, but keep the above mentioned cautions in mind.

 

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Anal sex would not normally harm you anal sphincter and tissues, although extremely rough anal sex could cause damage.
 

Yes you can strengthen and tone all of the muscles in the entire genital and anal area with squeezing exercises done daily.
 

The squeeze would be the same as if you were holding back from peeing or stopping the flow of urine mid-stream (for the vulva), and holding back on a bowel movement for the anus. Squeeze and hold for approximately 6-8 seconds, then relax the squeeze.


Work up gradually to doing perhaps 100 squeezes per day over say the next 2 weeks, then continue 100 per day after that. Within approximately 2 weeks you should notice considerable improvement in toning, strength and pleasurable sensitivity.

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I would suspect that your wife has a history of sexual abuse and/or other experiences of sexual trauma from her past that is interfering with any normal healthy adult sexual expression. Therapy (which we do not do), or counseling (which we do offer, and it is very therapeutic) is almost certainly required if she is to heal any existing sexual wounds, and also our workshop(s) to help her learn the art of mature, healthy adult sexuality would be most helpful. For workshops I would recommend a private session. We could not give you the personal attention and help needed with a regular workshop including other couples.


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If your wife is not interested in any of these options, consider a membership at Sexy Spiritual Relationships, where you can begin to learn ways to help her heal and to learn to enjoy a more spiritual sacred sexuality. Click on the banner below for more information about memberships.

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