I am in a committed, awesome relationship with a great lady.  We have been together almost two years.  She is open and honest, to a fault.  She has told me about several of her past relationships, in intimate detail.  To include exploits, places, acts, and even penis or scrotum size.  As our relationship travels through time, she has told me more and more, which at times contradicts earlier comments she has made, ie, her count for dating married men has grown to four from the first stated one.  Recently she showed me over a hundred pictures of her performing sex acts with men, in her previous relationships.  I am having some troubles coming to grips with all this and the fact she continues to push for details about my past expoits, which I am uncomfortable sharing.  I guess I don't want her to feel the doubt I am beginning to feel about this relationship and the direction it could take.  I do realize that neither of us were without previous partners in our lives before we met, however, I do not need to know all the details to compare myself to.

How do you stop the cycle of lousy sexual experiences that include pump stopping comments like "What are you doing?..Are you almost finished?…I'm not comfortable doing that"

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My wife fantasies about having sex with another woman. When she watches a movie or talks about this she gets horny.

She loves to do this when we are having sex and tells me how it would all play out. Later she says that she probably would mot do it, but also comments that she does not want to die stupid and maybe someday would like to try it. I know that she would have to pick out the other woman. How would I go about this and let her believe that this is what she wants to do.