I would expect that we will soon have sex

I believe that making love is a blessing and a beautiful gift from God that we are made so that two people can enjoy such pleasure and intimacy. That said, I have a question about a man with whom I have had a couple of dates. We have not yet been intimate physically but have [...]

I have a doubt regarding sex with my husband

I have a doubt regarding sex with my husband. Is it true that when couples participate in sex for the first time there will be bleeding? I have participated with my husband and I didn’t get any bleeding, but had severe pain. ANSWER Thanks for your question. Although bleeding during first-time intercourse has generally been [...]

I have not long lost my virginity.

I have not long lost my virginity. I was all prepared for it to hurt a little and also for bleeding but i didn’t bleed and my boyfriend asked if I have been honest with him about being a virgin. I was. Can you explain why this happens and is there anything that should of [...]

Should I worry about getting in shape for my wedding night?

How much should I worry about getting in shape for my wedding night? He and I are both virgins. I’m not worried about my weight (I’m very thin), but I wonder how much endurance I’ll need. ANSWER If you are reasonably fit now I wouldn’t worry too much about getting in better shape physically for [...]

I have always had an interest in anal sex

My wife and I have been married almost 29 years and I have always had an interest in anal sex for what reason I don’t know. Anyway I’ve never pushed the subject though I have approached it from time to time. My question is what might I do to get her to actually be the [...]

How do I ease his sexual inhibitions

I find that the better my emotional, non-physical connection is to a partner, the less we have in common on a physical chemistry level.  I have had 3 very serious relationships with men I could see myself marrying and living happily ever after with, each of which have had serious issues within the bedroom.  I [...]

My husband thinks he doesn’t satisfy me

I am a female age 34 and nothing ever comes out when I have an orgasm. Is  this normal? Do I not let myself finish? My husband thinks he doesn’t satisfy me because nothing comes out when we are making love, or with a vibrator. ANSWER You are absolutely perfectly normal. And hey isn’t it [...]

How do I achieve orgasm easier with a partner?

I was reading on your website and I came across info on techniques on how to delay your ejaculation, but I didn’t find any info on if you already have delayed ejaculation issues and looking for advice to speed up the process of achieving orgasm through sex and not masturbation. Is there any info out [...]

Can the Kama Sutra help people with intimacy problems in their marriage?

Can the Kama Sutra help people with intimacy problems in their marriage? The primary forms of intimacy in relationship are sexual and non-sexual forms of communication. The Kama Sutra gives detailed instructions on how to communicate, before, during and after lovemaking, and of course it also presents detailed instructions on virtually all sexual techniques, with [...]