My wife fantasies about having sex with another woman. When she watches a movie or talks about this she gets horny.
She loves to do this when we are having sex and tells me how it would all play out. Later she says that she probably would mot do it, but also comments that she does not want to die stupid and maybe someday would like to try it. I know that she would have to pick out the other woman. How would I go about this and let her believe that this is what she wants to do.
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It is a common fantasy to have sex with same sex partners, and of course homosexuality and bisexuality are normal human sexuality preferences, even if treated harshly by some segments of our communities.
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Me and my boyfriend went over to my friend's place to hang out. We got drunk and stayed there for the night. We slept together in one room. My boyfriend was at the other bed. I was supposed to sleep beside him but instead slept with my friend. I don't know what I was thinking but I began groping her. She never reacted and never said anything about what happened. She just kept silent and never spoke to me again. My boyfriend knows about it and he never got mad. He knows that sometimes I also like other girls. I mean, I sometimes do cam-whoring for him to look for sexy, yummy and hot girls. I am really confused right now. Why is this happening to me? I love my boyfriend and I have the desire with the same sex.
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Heart Freedom Exercises
Exercises To Do Together
Yin Yang YES!
The familiar Chinese yin/yang symbol suggests a balance and harmony between the yin (feminine energies) and yang (masculine energies) or between any pair of opposites. Examples of yin/yang in relationship are following/leading, surrender/control, opening to the mystery/making precise plans, and creativity in the moment/habit.
An important issue in many relationships is who leads, who makes decisions, and who is in charge? Sorting out “who’s the boss” can be quite contentious but does not need to be. Many couples are able to switch the lead back and forth depending on the situation and the respective abilities of the partners. They find the complementarities between their differences rather than competitiveness for power and control.
Time for Exercise: two to four minutes per dance
Properties Required: stereo and selection of slow dance tunes
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Heart Freedom Exercises
Exercises To Do Together
Permission Please
Time for Exercise: one minute
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Steps:
Ask your partner’s permission to be her lover. Look into her eyes and hold her hand while you speak. Most important is how you speak, not the exact words you use. Put your love into your voice.
Here is an example, but use your own words from your heart.
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Heart Freedom Exercises
Exercises To Do Together
Three Out of Three
“I want you. I need you. I love you.” Could there be any sentences sweeter than these to hear your lover speak?
Time for Exercise: 15 minutes
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Steps:
1.Prepare in advance what you will say to your lover for each of these three statements of endearment. What words will you say that accurately and honestly express how much you care for, desire, love, and need your partner? Give some specific examples for each statement.
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Heart Freedom Exercises
Exercises To Do Together
Eye Gazing
So through the eyes love attains the heart:
For the eyes are the scouts of the heart,
And the eyes go reconnoitering
For what it would please the heart to possess.
Guiraut de Borneilh, Poet
Hours, days, or even weeks might pass by without couples really looking at one another. The brief, but powerful, practice of conscious eye gazing forges unequivocal bonds. Eyes are gateways for love. Through real and true eye contact you share your soul.
Time for Exercise: two minutes
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Heart Freedom Exercises
Exercises To Do On Your Own
Heart in Darkness
Time for Exercise: 15 minutes to one hour
Properties Required: drawing paper, pencils, colored pencils, pen, charcoal sticks
Steps:
1.Draw a picture illustrating the emotional state of your heart right now. Convey the extent to which your heart is wounded, healed, open, closed, stingy, generous, capable of giving and receiving love. For example, your heart might be entombed in an impregnable fortress, or there might be cracks or openings giving some access to your heart. It could be shrouded in darkness or bathed in light. Various colors might symbolize your heart’s condition. There might be sores or tears in your heart. It might be impaled with sharp objects.
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