April 9, 2009

How come I don’t get wet?

I am 20 years old. I lost my virginity at the age of 19. How come I don’t get wet when me and my boyfriend foreplay? I used to always get wet before but ever since I lost my virginity I don’t get wet anymore. my vagina is even dry while we have sex. Why is that? is there anything I can do about it?

 
ANSWER

There can be a number of reasons why you aren't experiencing as much lubrication as you like or as you were used to. There's a wide range of "normal" amounts of lubrication. Every woman is different and will experience a range in vaginal lubrication during her lifetime.

1.Harsh soaps or douches can dry tender skin. Don't douche and use only very mild soap for washing externally. Your vagina cleans itself naturally inside.

2.You may be allergic to chemicals in your laundry soap or if you use scented toilet paper, etc. Chlorine in swimming pools can cause dryness and kill helpful bacteria in your vagina so that you might get vaginal infections.

3.You may have a skin condition that is causing your dryness — check with your doctor.

4.Are you dry throughout the whole length of your vagina? Sometimes juices gather at the back of the vagina. If you're lying on your back it may be gathering there. Check with a finger and, if you are wet deep inside, spread some forward and out onto your lips.

5.Make sure you are keeping your whole body hydrated — drink lots of water!
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December 21, 2007

Body Freedom Exercise (1): Fit for Sex

 

4 Freedoms Exercises

 

        Reclaim your 4 Freedoms through awareness and action. Manifest the ideas you’ve just read about by engaging in these exercises. Delight your body, awaken your mind, open your heart, and free your soul. Exercises are organized under the following headings: Body, Mind, Heart, Soul, and Integration. They are further divided into activities for experimenting on your own or with your partner. If you like, you can also do the solo practices at the same time as your partner does them. In addition, some partner exercises can be adapted for individual enjoyment—use your imagination. A note for all exercises: the pronouns he and she are used interchangeably throughout, meaning that the exercises are for both men and women unless specifically designated for male or female. Cultivate a sense of playfulness, experimentation, and adventure in your practice.
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