June 10, 2008

Can a woman come without leaving any traces of cum on the penis?

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Can a woman come without leaving any traces of cum on the penis?

 

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Any secretions when a woman comes just looks like wetness. A woman’s ejaculation fluid (if she does ejaculate) is clear and watery. There will not be any visible sign on the penis, only wetness, but that wetness looks exactly like

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June 4, 2008

Are you almost finished?

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How do you stop the cycle of lousy sexual experiences that include pump stopping comments like "What are you doing?..Are you almost finished?…I'm not comfortable doing that"


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Here is a simple sexual learning technique that can help get away from the scenario you describe.
 

A or B Game

Try two different versions of touch, intercourse, music, etc. Refer to one as A and one as B. Ask which (s)he likes best. This avoids the hurt when someone tells you

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May 16, 2008

When you're 70+, how much sexual energy can still exist?

 
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When you're 70+, how much sexual energy can still exist?

 

 
 
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Sexual energy is just a form of the life force. For the ordinary human being the life force diminishes predictably with aging, and most show little sexual vitality by the time they are over 70 years. But this is not normal, only common. For those who

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May 14, 2008

It was my first time and I just couldn’t do it

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I have been going out with my boyfriend for the past 7 months and recently we tried to have sex. It was my first time and I just couldn’t do it, so I asked him to stop while he was just penetrating his penis. It looks like I lost my virginity because I bled for 2 days right after that experience. Is that Normal? Does it always hurt?

I’ve been hearing about orgasms but I really don’t know what it means. Please help me understand?

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April 14, 2008

Why is delaying orgasm or trying to focus on your partner's pleasure such a revolutionary idea?

 

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Why is delaying orgasm or trying to focus on your partner's pleasure such a revolutionary idea? Why do people talk about this as though it's something totally foreign, that can only be attained through study? Isn't this sort of the point of having sex (or, at least, making love vs. just sex), i.e. coming at the same time that your partner does?

 
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It is a mistake to focus on what you don’t want. An axiom of every spiritual practice that I am aware of is that you focus on what you do want, because you get more of what you pay attention to. So if a man focuses on not ejaculating, he is actually focusing on what he does not want, i.e., ejaculating, so ironically he will get quicker ejaculations. Rather, we teach men to focus on moving, circulating and exchanging sexual energy, upon opening the heart to feel, give and receive love. Women are instructed on how to let go of shame and guilt by opening their hearts and also by accepting pleasure as a good thing. Both are instructed on going beyond simple physical pleasure by offering their lovemaking

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February 28, 2008

I am not sure what I am stimulating

My husband can achieve orgasm without ejaculation by stimulating 2 nerves, muscles, or something above the penis on the lower torso . I can’t find any info as to what this area is. I or he can do the stimulation which produces an orgasm which he feels is more like a female orgasm. What is this? I can’t find and answer anywhere. He also has an indentation near it that I can put a knuckle of a bent finger “into” as if I were penetrating him. HELP!  I am not sure what I am stimulating but he would rather have this kind of orgasm than ejaculating. Although, he still ejaculates to keep a healthy prostrate. Can you give me some guidance?

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February 21, 2008

Sometimes I find I get wet for some unexplainable reasons

 

Girl__Girl__Girl_by_xxBambixx.jpgSometimes I find I get wet for some unexplainable reasons. There is nothing sexual going or even thinking about sexual things but I find I can get wet for no reason what so ever at certain times. Could this be a sign of something else? If not what could cause this?

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You don`t specify what kind of wetness, or how much. If it`s just clear lubrication this can have to do with all sorts of things, from your body responding to sensual stimuli, without sexy thoughts first, to fluctuations in your hormones as you go through your monthly menstrual cycle. Don`t fret about it. This is not unusual.

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