I am 20 years old. I lost my virginity at the age of 19. How come I don’t get wet when me and my boyfriend foreplay? I used to always get wet before but ever since I lost my virginity I don’t get wet anymore. my vagina is even dry while we have sex. Why is that? is there anything I can do about it?
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There can be a number of reasons why you aren't experiencing as much lubrication as you like or as you were used to. There's a wide range of "normal" amounts of lubrication. Every woman is different and will experience a range in vaginal lubrication during her lifetime.
1.Harsh soaps or douches can dry tender skin. Don't douche and use only very mild soap for washing externally. Your vagina cleans itself naturally inside.
2.You may be allergic to chemicals in your laundry soap or if you use scented toilet paper, etc. Chlorine in swimming pools can cause dryness and kill helpful bacteria in your vagina so that you might get vaginal infections.
3.You may have a skin condition that is causing your dryness — check with your doctor.
4.Are you dry throughout the whole length of your vagina? Sometimes juices gather at the back of the vagina. If you're lying on your back it may be gathering there. Check with a finger and, if you are wet deep inside, spread some forward and out onto your lips.
5.Make sure you are keeping your whole body hydrated — drink lots of water!
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I’m 24 years old and have two kids. During sex I get really wet at the start and mid way through it I’m dry like the desert and it turns my husband off right away. This leads to him asking if I’m cheating on him which i would never do. My question is how do I stay wet the whole time?
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There can be a number of reasons why your lubrication vanishes — you say you start out wet, then dry up. These can be physical (for instance after childbirth, due to hormonal changes) They can also be emotional. Are you staying excited? Or, do you lose your desire part way through? Do you kiss, caress, a lot or is it just intercourse? Are you distracted by thoughts? Does your husband help you to have an orgasm with external stimulation (eg oral sex or manual clitoral stimulation) before intercourse?
Read this article on women and orgasm to give you some tips:
"Freeing Female Orgasm". We also have a detailed ebook
"Awakening Women's Orgasm".
Also, lots of sex educators recommend using lubricants during intercourse. It helps to keep things smooth and slippery for both of you. During extended intercourse, with lots of friction of penis on vagina, it's common for some dryness to set in.
Good For Her, a fabulous women's sex store and education center says: "Lubricants are a must! Whether you are looking to increase the slippery slide of sex or masturbation or to relieve vaginal dryness due to menopause, aging, childbirth, medical conditions or other factors - lubes are here to save the day. From underwater adventures to increasing everyday slick sensations, lubricants can make good sex great, and great sex out of this world!"
Some good lubricants are made by; Astroglide, BodyWise, BioGlide, Hathor, JO Women.
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