Opposites -”Backslide”

Rear entry positions generally, and this variation in particular, build hot sexual energy very rapidly, especially for the man. With the lady facing away from you, the angle is just right to provide strong stimulation to the frenulum. The glans is the smooth head of the penis. The corona is the ring around the glans. The frenulum is that puffy patch of skin just below the corona, located on the underside of the penis. If the penis were hanging down, the frenulum would be in contact with the testicular sac. Because of the extreme sensitivity of the frenulum, this is not a good position if the man usually ejaculates quickly, but is perfect if the man wants to ejaculate, but has trouble doing so in other intercourse positions. This position is excellent when the lingam is small and the yoni is large.

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Postures that combine opposites (rear entry, head to feet, mouth to groin) build erotic excitement and generate a high sexual charge rapidly. All opposite positions are useful for any man with difficulty getting and maintaining an erection, because they are so arousing. All opposite positions are to be avoided by the man who ejaculates prematurely.

Opposites – “Dog”

“Doggie Style” is probably the most common rear entry position. In the “dog” position penetration can be into the yoni or into the anus, as the lovers desire.

Opposites – “Dog” (variation – pulling on the reins)

Many a lady will swoon, if her passion is already very high, when you whisper in her ear, “All your holes are mine”. For anal penetration be sure to use a condom to protect your wand of light from bacterial infection. Of course you know to also use lots of lubricant, and tease her back door open with your gentlest coaxing manner.

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Standing – “Clinging To The Tree”

We are sometimes asked, “Is there such a thing as a Tantra quickie?” Of course there is, but the man does not usually ejaculate, so the quickie is a prelude to more extended lovemaking later. No couple can find several hours every time they make love, but be sure that quickies are not your usual approach to sex or it will get boring and predictable.

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Standing positions are not usually held for long periods of time because of the physical strength required. They are ideal for lovemaking “quickies” including when you are being discretely naughty in some semi-public place such as a washroom at an art gallery.

Standing – “Climbing the Tree”

When passion flares, back her against a wall, lift one or both legs and ravish her.

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“YabYum” ( variation – sitting in a chair)

Some lovers also enjoy the YabYum position as a way to tune into each other early on in their lovemaking. Then they return to it when the sexual charge is high.

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“YabYum” (variation – kneeling)

If the man is not comfortable in the lotus position supporting the full weight of his goddess, the woman may kneel on him supporting some of her own weight with her thighs. It is important that you find a variation that you can maintain comfortably for as long as you would like.

Hands help to concentrate and circulate the energy as well. Place your left hand at the base of her spine and your right hand on her back at the heart center. Alternatively, place your left hand at the base of his spine and with your right press the “Wind Mansion” acupoints at the junction of skull and neck. Another variation is to run your hands in flowing motions up his spine.

When your sexual excitement begins to subside, speed up your breathing and undulate your bodies to build the charge again and move it up. Even with rapid rocking and breathing, there is little actual thrusting happening so the man is able to last longer. Some delightful yoni squeezing will help him to maintain an erection without going over into ejaculation. Experiment!

Recommended reading:

Acupressure for Lovers: Secrets of Touch for Increasing Intimacy, by Michael Reed Gach

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“YabYum” (variation – “full see saw”)

Experiment with making sound at each chakra point, chanting or “toning” together to focus the energy. You will be amazed at how beautiful the sound is when you are working with such a high sexual charge of life force energy. Go ahead and have some fun.

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“YabYum” (variation – “see saw”)

Your attention at this point is on working with the life force energy that has been built up during active lovemaking. Do some PC squeezing (Kegels) to help you circulate the hot sexual energy away from your genitals up through your body through the higher chakra centers. Try to exchange your sexual / spiritual energy with your lover, and ultimately use it to make a direct connection with the Divine.

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“YabYum” (variation – sitting in a chair)

The term Yab Yum is actually a Tantric name. In the Kama Sutra this position is called the Embrace of Milk and Water.

If the lotus position is too difficult, the man may sit on the edge of the bed or on a straight-backed chair with his legs out in front of him and feet on the floor. Once you are snugly connected, be still, look into each other’s eyes, harmonize your breathing, connect your mouths and tongues with a kiss, or touch third eye points.

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The classic Tantric lovemaking position is the YabYum (father / mother; yin / yang) position. We sometimes refer to it as the yum-yum position. Use it for moving and exchanging sexual energy when you are at a peak of sexual arousal and want to ride the wave of bliss rather than to continue building more hot sexual energy or end the lovemaking with the man ejaculating.

“YabYum” (variation – classic lotus)

The man sits cross-legged, in the lotus position, with his partner on top of his lap. You may support his thighs and back with pillows. When you are ready to resume more active lovemaking, you can easily roll from this position into man or woman on top or face-to-face on your sides while still maintaining your genital connection.

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