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It is not unheard of, but somewhat unusual for any woman not to like receiving oral sex. So I hope this information boosts your confidence in trying oral sex with your wife. Almost certainly she will like this aspect of lovemaking.


Of course, some skill on your part would be helpful, so you may want to consult a video or two showing you how to perform

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There can be a number of reasons why you aren't experiencing as much lubrication as you like or as you were used to. There's a wide range of "normal" amounts of lubrication. Every woman is different and will experience a range in vaginal lubrication during her lifetime.

1.Harsh soaps or douches can dry tender skin. Don't douche and use only very mild soap for washing externally. Your vagina cleans itself naturally inside.

2.You may be allergic to chemicals in your laundry soap or if you use scented toilet paper, etc. Chlorine in swimming pools can cause dryness and kill helpful bacteria in your vagina so that you might get vaginal infections.

3.You may have a skin condition that is causing your dryness — check with your doctor.

4.Are you dry throughout the whole length of your vagina? Sometimes juices gather at the back of the vagina. If you're lying on your back it may be gathering there. Check with a finger and, if you are wet deep inside, spread some forward and out onto your lips.

5.Make sure you are keeping your whole body hydrated — drink lots of water!

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Foreplay - "Dressing and Undressing"

Dressing and undressing is one of the most delightful forms of love play. There is an extremely sexy scene in the movie “Don’t Look Now” staring Donald Sutherland and Julie Christie in which the lovers put their clothes on rather than take them off. We highly recommend that you change outfits several times over hours of Tantric sacred lovemaking. Clothes suited for a romantic dinner at home for just the two of you would be different from those you might wear giving your lover a massage, or for dancing, etc.

"Undressing"

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Foreplay-"Dancing"

Lighten up! Fun, playful activities such as dancing set a sensuous mood for sacred loving. If you ever feel stuck, not knowing what to do next during your hours of sacred love play, the natural thing to do is touch your bodies together and dancing is the perfect way to do that. It will get you out of your head and into your body. Then before you know it, you are back in the throes of passion again, absorbed in the glorious now moment.

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"Foreplay"

“One of the most wonderful things about latter life lovemaking is that foreplay can last up to a month.” Loving Life After 60: Celebrating the Autumn of Your Life by Tom Paugh

Surveys have shown that typical lovemaking lasts under thirty minutes from start to finish, in virtually every country around the planet. Tantric lovers, on the other hand, extend lovemaking over a period of hours. Extending lovemaking not only increases your pleasure, but also allows for a proper appreciation and honoring of the gender differences between the warriors of love. It usually takes a woman much longer than a man to come to full sexual arousal. Unfortunately lovemaking that finishes in less than thirty minutes may leave the lady frustrated and dissatisfied with her experience. Taking lots of time with foreplay is therefore an important part of Tantric lovemaking.

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