What is the benefit or benefits of female ejaculation?

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Some of the benefits of female ejaculation include these.

1. Female ejaculation is a super cool thing to be doing. Once any woman learns how to do it, she can tell all her friends about it.
2. The lady will typically feel a tremendous sense of personal empowerment and accomplishment.
3. She will also  gain an extraordinary sense of sexual confidence.
4. Her lover will feel awesome in having helped her to experience ejaculation.
5. Her lover will also gain an extraordinary sense of sexual confidence.
6. The couple will typically experience an opening of their hearts; including sometimes intense feelings of love and passion combined.
7. It does wonders to ease the menstrual cycle and the menopause transition.

By the way we have released a video which teaches women how to ejaculate: Female Ejaculation

All good things,

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With female ejaculation, we can’t predict when it’s going to happen and it’s always when my partner is using his fingers. Can you explain this and is there a way that we can make this something we can do when we want to rather than a surprise?

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Here’s some things to consider about female ejaculation. The most important elements are: arousal, hydration, muscle control and pelvic tilt.

It’s easier to have an ejaculation when you are very excited, well hydrated and with your pelvis tilted forward.

Practice your PC squeezes a lot. Focus not only on squeezing, but pushing out, using your ab muscles as well as those in your vagina.

Ejaculation with finger stimulation is usually one of the easiest ways for women as they are learning this practice. Pay particular attention to the sensations you feel when you do ejaculate. Can you recall what happened and how you felt just before? When he is stimulating you with his fingers, tilt your pelvis up and push down and out with abs and vaginal muscles.

For ejaculation during intercourse, try with woman on top. When you are very excited, use thrusting patterns that tilt your pelvis vigorously back, then forward. On the forward thrust, endeavor to envelop Jim’s penis very deeply inside and push down with your abs and vaginal muscles.

Have fun practicing!

We’ll have a video out at the beginning of November that teaches about female ejaculation. Check back with our website then.

4freedoms@tantraloving.com
www.sexyspiritualrelationships.com
www.tantra-sex.com

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You are absolutely perfectly normal. And hey isn’t it wonderful that you are able to have orgasms?

First off, ejaculation and orgasm are not the same thing, for women or for men. We equate them in our minds because they often happen very closely together–almost always for men unless they have learned ejaculation mastery, and sometimes for women.

Just as orgasm is something you as a woman learn to do, so is ejaculation. Here are some tips:

A woman’s ejaculate (a very clear, watery fluid) is manufactured in the para-urethral glands on the upper wall of the vagina, in the area we think of as the g-spot. In order for this fluid to develop make sure you drink lots of water, especially before you’re going to make love. Also you need to be very, very aroused, so that the tissues swell and the fluid develops. When you are very aroused, and the fluid is developing, you may have a feeling like you are going to pee, but don’t worry you won’t. Relax. To assist an ejaculation, push down with your abdominal muscles and with the walls of your vagina. You need to get strong vaginal muscles by doing exercises (you may know them as kegels).  Also to help expel the ejaculate, tip your pelvis forward as you bear down. You may try stimulating your clitoris, anus, and the walls of your vagina as you push.

We are in the midst of producing a home study video on Female Ejaculation, it will be ready by the summer, check our www.tantra-sex.com site for news. Until then, you can get lots of great pointers about orgasm from our ebook Awakening Women’s Orgasm. Also there’s a great ebook for men, telling them how to separate orgasm from ejaculation so that they too can become multi-orgasmic. It’s at www.tantra-sex.com

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