"Show me what you like"

 

Visually, one of the most erotic things is to watch your lover masturbate in complete lusty sexual abandon. A rare, extraordinary treat is to see her ejaculate with the sunshine streaming in through a window (or if you are lying outside), resulting in a kaleidoscope of exotic colors as her squirting juicy nectar diffuses and refracts the rays of light. 

We encourage lovers to ask for what they want. You can’t get what you want if your lover does not know what that is. What better way to communicate your lusty desires than to show her how you want to be touched, by touching yourself as she watches adoringly. This requires surrender, a challenging but essential skill for all great male lovers. Many men are more comfortable being the initiator, being in charge, being the doer and giver. But, in Tantric sacred loving, the lead is smoothly passed from one to the other, requiring that both are equally skilled at giving and receiving pleasure.

Men are like fire (heating up and burning out quickly), while women are like water (slowly coming to a boil, but then rolling along for quite some time). If the man has ejaculated and lost his erection, the lady may “finish off what was started” as he holds her lovingly. Or, it may be desirable for the man to take a rest during extended lovemaking, before returning to active intercourse. This is a perfect opportunity for the lady to show her man how she likes to be touched, and how she comes with manual stimulation of her clitoris, her “love button”, whose only purpose is pleasure.

Men, put on an erotic performance for your lady. Dare to give her a sexy strip tease and exotic dance. If you have mastered contracting one muscle at a time while holding all the others completely relaxed, show the observant goddess how you can lift your testicles, bob your penis, tighten your anus or perineum. Culminate with a masturbation ceremony, while she cheers you on with appreciative exclamations of delight. Perhaps she prefers that you come onto her body or into her luscious mouth to end the session. Ask your lady what is her fancy.

 

Excerpted from our Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positions eBook.

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"Massage Tips"

Massages are easy to do as well as fun to give and receive. You do not have to have any training to give your mate a thoroughly satisfying massage, although if you would like more guidance there are some excellent books and videos available.

Giving each other a massage as a first course of sexual play adds to your entire experience. Both partners are able to relax, leave the world behind, and be in the moment together. With massage, a woman’s body begins to awaken for arousal—her erotic side receives the time and attention she needs to “get in the mood”. A man whose body is relaxed so that his energy can flow more freely is able to last much longer.

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