I've been reading your Soul Sex: Tantra For Two. and it's a great book, but our relationship problem is that at age 31 and after about 3½ months he began experiencing erectile dysfunction. We've had sex once since then. What can I do? I'm so miserable because it's hurting his pride and he's less affectionate and defensive about it. He's seeing a therapist but honestly, I see mine more often than he does. Whenever he tries to make an appointment for testosterone testing or what have you, the Dr. is out of town or something.

Al, any advice on how to handle him through this intensely awful situation? I want to spend my life with him. But I think I need to leave him. My life was fuller with him in it, and then he went away.

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Wet dreams are dreams during which the male ejaculates in his sleep. Though a bit messy and inconvenient, there is no harm in having wet dreams. They are completely natural for all men and usually much more frequent for boys between the ages of 12-14, but not uncommon for men of all ages, even into their 60s and 70s.

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I am a married 67 year old male We had a good sex life for the 45 years we have been married. The past couple of month's I am having a hard time ejaculating. When we have intercourse or oral sex I stay as hard as a rock and feeling very horny but I just cant get over the hump to come. I usually come by masturbating with my wife helping me and that sometimes takes 5 min. My doctor has injected me with about 3/4 cc testosterone for 2 months. Except for feeling more horny and make my penis thicker it did not solve the problem. I told him that I have no erection problems. He said that is unusual but that is as far as it went. I had a prostate operation 4 years ago as I had problems urinating and now I ejaculate in my bladder, but I have a very strong climax. I tried Viagra a year ago just for fun but all it did give me a terrific head ache for a day.

 

I have read all of your brochures and I am hoping you can recommend one of your product that may help alleviate my problem.

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My husband can achieve orgasm without ejaculation by stimulating 2 nerves, muscles, or something above the penis on the lower torso . I can’t find any info as to what this area is. I or he can do the stimulation which produces an orgasm which he feels is more like a female orgasm. What is this? I can’t find and answer anywhere. He also has an indentation near it that I can put a knuckle of a bent finger “into” as if I were penetrating him. HELP!  I am not sure what I am stimulating but he would rather have this kind of orgasm than ejaculating. Although, he still ejaculates to keep a healthy prostrate. Can you give me some guidance?

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"I have a follow up question. During lovemaking, which is the best way to do the PC pumps, kind of randomly every few thrusts, or to do less, but hold it for 10 seconds like in the exercises."

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"My name is Jack and I am reading your book Soul Sex: Tantra for Two. I would like to know a little more on the prostate gland. You mention that our prostate needs to release our sperm on a regular basis. Otherwise there is a build up and the gland expands. What about if you have had a vasectomy? Where does the sperm go when we come? Does it get absorbed into the blood stream?"

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