BDSM – The Role of a Dominatrix

Here is a list of rules from a dominatrix web site.

1. A SESSION begins with you undressing, and you handing me my tribute. If I have to ask for it, you will be punished.

2. The fastening of a black leather collar around your neck will mark the beginning of the session.

3. You must always ask permission before you do or say anything. PERIOD!

4. You must always use the proper form of address when speaking to me. You will say, “Mistress, may I speak?”

5. You are never to say “No” to me when I tell you to do something. No matter how uncomfortable or embarrassed you may feel. If I think you are unable to perform my request, I will ask you to stop.

6. When you sit, you must never cross your legs or keep your knees together. You must always have your legs open so you will be totally exposed every time I look at you. If you fail to do this you will be disciplined.

7. Your “Safe Word” is “RED“. Do not hesitate to use this word if you find yourself in an unbearable situation. I will stop everything and we will talk.

Beginner BDSM Kit

Here are some products frequently used in light BDSM play, such as restraints, whips, paddles, ticklers, and blindfolds.

This material is excerted from our Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positions eBook, by Al Link and Pala Copeland

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