October 27, 2007

The Discipline of Conscious Attention – Mind Freedom(Part 6 of 8 )

The Discipline of Conscious Attention – Mind Freedom
Part 6 of 8
 
Loose your imagination to create a vision of the kind of relationship you want.  As you construct your vision, identify and focus on qualities of your relationship rather than characteristics of your partner. For instance, “I want a relationship that is full of laughter, honesty, and sensuality” rather than “I want a partner who is funny, truthful, and sexy,” or “I want a relationship that is financially strong” rather than “I want a rich spouse.” Qualities of a relationship are much larger and more encompassing than either partner’s individual traits. Your partner does not make it happen for you—you are both responsible for creating a well-balanced union.
 
Focus not on characteristics of partners
but on qualities of a relationship.

Whenever you think about your relationship, concentrate on your vision. Choosing your vision, thinking only about what you do want, does not mean deceiving yourself about the state of your life. Be completely honest about what is going on in your life right now. If your actual relationship is unlike your vision, if you have relationship difficulties, as almost everyone does, compare them against your relationship vision and say to yourself, “I choose to have my relationship vision.” Follow these steps:
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June 3, 2007

BDSM – Role of a Dominatrix

BDSM – The Role of a Dominatrix

 
Here is a list of rules from a dominatrix web site.

 
1. A SESSION begins with you undressing, and you handing me my tribute. If I have to ask for it, you will be punished.

2. The fastening of a black leather collar around your neck will mark the beginning of the session.

3. You must always ask permission before you do or say anything. PERIOD!

4. You must always use the proper form of address when speaking to me. You will say, "Mistress, may I speak?"  

5. You are never to say "No" to me when I tell you to do something. No matter how uncomfortable or embarrassed you may feel. If I think you are unable to perform my request, I will ask you to stop.

6. When you sit, you must never cross your legs or keep your knees together. You must always have your legs open so you will be totally exposed every time I look at you. If you fail to do this you will be disciplined.

7. Your "Safe Word" is "RED". Do not hesitate to use this word if you find yourself in an unbearable situation. I will stop everything and we will talk.

 
Beginner BDSM Kit

 Here are some products frequently used in light BDSM play, such as restraints, whips, paddles, ticklers, and blindfolds.

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  • Complete kit for amateur slave and master.
  • Includes instructional video.
  • Leather wrist restraints.
  • Black latex flog.
  • Dog collar
  • Leather Paddle
  • 2 tie-off straps/leash
  • Blindfold

 

MEO from Germany has an extensive collection of BDSM accessories for those who are interested in something a little more hard-core.


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June 1, 2007

Light BDSM Play - Sexual Role Playing - "Punishment"

BDSM Fantasy Play  - Light BDSM Sexual Fantasy Role Playing

 

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“My darling, you are now at my mercy. You must obey my commands. Do exactly as I tell you or face your deserved punishment. Of course the punishment must fit the crime. You are going to like this!”

BDSM play is always completely voluntary for both lovers, both the giver and receiver, master and slave, dominant and submissive. No one gets hurt. The lovers often go into very high energy altered states of consciousness with this type of play which takes them out of the ordinary, predictable , routine world they usually inhabit. Punishment is not really hurting the recipient, but is only a playful pretend, that can help you unlock lost aspects of your self from your deep subconscious.

Many men become extremely aroused when their goddess delivers warm golden urine or honey cum onto their body. Perhaps a perfect punishment for disobeying your commands could be to female ejaculate onto his eager face while he dines between your luscious silken thighs at your gate to heaven. Gentlemen, lick, lap and love it!

 “Biological transmutation is the process through which a live organism, in certain conditions, activates nuclear reactions that lead to the transformation of a chemical element in another chemical element. Biological transmutation releases slowly significant quantities of energy. Sperm, in men's case and sexual fluids in women's case, can be transformed into energy. This takes place inside the body. So this energy is huge and it remains in our body on different levels, giving us multiple advantages.”

Biological Transmutations and their applications in: Chemistry, Physics, Biology, Ecology, Medicine, Nutrition, Agronomy, Geology, by Louis C. Kervran

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May 13, 2007

BDSM Fantasy Play - Light BDSM Sexual Fantasy Role Playing

BDSM Fantasy Play  - Light BDSM Sexual Fantasy Role Playing

 
“Yes master, have your way with me. Your command is my wish.”

 There is a great deal of misinformation and misunderstanding about what BDSM is and what it means. Modern Tantric lovers are experimenting with BDSM play within a context of trust, surrender, love, and a willingness to explore mysteries of the shadow. In the darkest corners of the shadow, BDSM can include overt domination, submission, cruelty and pain, but for most Tantric lovers these aspects are not present.

 
“If I’m a bad girl, will you promise to spank me master?”

 

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May 11, 2007

BDSM Fantasy - Playful "Torture"

BDSM Fantasy Play

Playful “torture” can lead to extraordinary orgasms.

 

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May 9, 2007

BDSM - Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism

BDSM Fantasy Play

 
One of the most common fantasies for men and women is to be blindfolded and tied up. Milder forms of BDSM (bondage/discipline/sadism/masochism) play are entering into the bedrooms of the nation as cultural taboos against the healthy exploration of sexuality among consenting adults drops away. If you find your lovemaking has become predictable or routine, spice it up with a touch of BDSM play.

 

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