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The bacteria present in the anus is extremely dangerous if it gains entry into any other opening of the body, e.g., tip of penis, vagina, mouth. Serious infection can result. You are advised to be very cautious to prevent this from happening.


With any penetration into the anus with a penis, the penis should be protected by a condom. After removal of the penis from the anus, the condum should immediately be disposed of, preferably flushed down the toilet. Then the penis and the anal opening should be washed with a mild hand soap and rinsed.


If you put fingers into the anus, it is best to wear a finger cot (a condum for fingers), then dispose of the cot immediately when the finger is withdrawn, and wash the hands. In this case the finger cot is more to protect the sensitive and fragile tissues inside the anus from damage if there are sharp fingernails. But if a finger cot is not used, it is important to wash under the finger nails to remove any lingering bacteria.

 
Anal sex can be a source of great pleasure if you take care to honor the requirments for proper hygiene.


If your boyfriends symptoms do not clear up within a few days, consult a physician for proper diagnosis and treatment.


One other point about anal sex, never insert any object into the anus unless there is part of the object, or an attached cord, that you can grab onto in order to remove the object. If any object gets lost in there, you will be making a very unpleasant and embarrasing trip to the hospital emergency room to get the object removed.

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Anal sex would not normally harm you anal sphincter and tissues, although extremely rough anal sex could cause damage.
 

Yes you can strengthen and tone all of the muscles in the entire genital and anal area with squeezing exercises done daily.
 

The squeeze would be the same as if you were holding back from peeing or stopping the flow of urine mid-stream (for the vulva), and holding back on a bowel movement for the anus. Squeeze and hold for approximately 6-8 seconds, then relax the squeeze.


Work up gradually to doing perhaps 100 squeezes per day over say the next 2 weeks, then continue 100 per day after that. Within approximately 2 weeks you should notice considerable improvement in toning, strength and pleasurable sensitivity.

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Anal sex isn't for everyone, but here are some ideas to assist you.


The anus has a lot of nerve endings and so anal sex can be quite enjoyable, but only if it is done properly.


The receiving partner, the one who is being anally penetrated, must be very relaxed, so that the anus opens happily. You should also be aroused, very sexually excited before anal sex. Tender tickling around the anus, and massage of the buttocks and the anus can help.


It's also very important that the active partner, the one penetrating the anus, proceeds with gentleness and respect. Internal tissues are very tender and thin, and there is no natural lubricant. If you husband is pushing his way in hard and fast it's no wonder you don't enjoy it. It is understandable that he would be very excited by anal intercourse — "opposites" sex positions are more animalistic, impersonal, and often very arousing. But, he must remember to add affection as well.


Ask him if you can experiment with anal penetration on him. Use a latex glove to manually explore his anus, or try various types of sextoys that are specifically designed for anal play, like butt plugs, anal beads, and the Aneros prostate massager. This will give him a firsthand experience of what anal penetration feels like, and a understanding of the need for tenderness. With the proper attention on your part, he may come to thoroughly enjoy himself.

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"How can I get my partner to experiment with anal sex?"

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There is an art to anal sex which requires learning technique and developing skill over time with practice. The first step is to gain your partner’s agreement to explore anal sex, with an understanding that you both have to learn some things if it is to be a wonderful pleasurable experience. Include a discussion of each partner’s beliefs and assumptions, as well as any fear that may be present.

Most sophisticated lovers do learn the art of anal sex and do enjoy it immensely. Unfortunately many people, both men and women, have strong taboos against anal sex. Many fear anal penetration for a number of reasons. For example, it may have overtones of homosexuality between male lovers, or that it is hygienically dangerous. Others hold religious beliefs which condemn anal sex as sinful.

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