It makes quite uncomfortable for me

Well, here is my problem. I am 34 years old and dated more than a few men.  Not a lot, but more than two or three. All of the guys were what I would consider average or a little better in the penis department. I have never considered myself a size queen, nor do I [...]

I don’t care about sex

I am exhausted all the time, working and taking care of our 2 year old… I don’t care about sex. My husband is upset, what can I do? I have no desire and just want to go to bed.at night and be left alone… Causing problems in our relationship… many of my friends feel the [...]

I have never had a serious relationship with a man.

I have been having strange feelings for me lately. I want to be with a man and be his slave sexually. I have never had a serious relationship with a man. But now I find myself wanting a man to take control of me sexually. Am I losing my mind or is this a somewhat [...]

Why you should make love longer

Truly satisfying lovemaking on all levels, emotional and spiritual as well as physical, requires time. It’s about much more than intense intercourse or even foreplay. Harmony must be established between the lovers. And that means connecting through your hearts and minds before you jump each other’s bodies. Pala and Al tell you how—it’s simple, fun [...]

Asking for What You Want Sexually Part 2

Asking your lover for what you want and giving your lover whatever has been requested are two sides of the same coin—a yin/yang balance of receiving/giving, and passive/active pleasure. Just as it is important to learn to freely ask for what pleases you, it is also important to know that you can give unconditionally. This [...]

Asking for What You Want Sexually Part 1

It may be difficult to ask for what you want in bed if you do not know what that is. Furthermore, you may not have any language to use to ask for what you want. Here are some simple exercises to help you discover what you like and do not like, and to create a [...]

How Long Should a Man Keep his Erection?

How long should a man keep an erection? Is there such a thing as too long?  Find out. All good things, 4freedoms@tantraloving.com www.sexyspiritualrelationships.com www.tantra-sex.com

Where is the line between both sexes?

I would like to make clear in a certain confusion I am confronted with. So much is talked nowadays about so called practice of tantra by homosexuals. It is according to me against the traditional understanding of tantra and such “Sexual Secrets” by N. Douglas & P. Slinger clearly get along with my opinion as [...]

How do I trust him with my body and heart again?

I just found out my boyfriend had cheated on my almost 6 months ago. With one of my so called friends. I don’t know the details but i want to try and move on everything has been great for us the last 6 months. How do i trust him with my body and heart again? [...]

Do you offer training for people who want to become a tantra teacher?

I have been reading your book Soul Sex: Tantra for Two, and following your newsletter. I hope that you can help me with this. Do you offer training for people who want to become a tantra teacher, or are aware/ know of any tantra teacher training (with certification) that offers training to become a tantric [...]

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