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Don't worry — orgasms are something you learn how to have. You can learn to have many different kinds of orgasms and many of them. One of the most important things you need in order to have an orgasm is lots of time. It often takes women quite a bit longer than men to become thoroughly aroused. We need lots and lots of kisses and caresses all over our bodies before our yonis (the Tantra term for female genitals) become excited enough to become orgasmic. Another really helpful point for your boyfriend, is that when he finds a particular stroke or touch that is bringing you lots of pleasure and building you toward orgasm he makes sure to keep doing whatever he is doing EXACTLY the same way, no change at all.

Here's an article we wrote that gives you both some good tips:

Freeing the Female Orgasm

You might also want to get our ebook:

Awakening Women's Orgasm

It goes into a lot more detail about how to have lots of orgasms.

Relax and enjoy every moment of kissing, touching, caressing, and so on — let go of the goal of getting to orgasm, and you will be able to have an orgasm much more easily.

Al Link and Pala Copeland

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