Are there ways for me to behave more gently?

ANSWER

There’s no one "right" way to make love. A skilled, knowledgeable lover employs a wide range of practices, from slow and gentle to fast and furious.  That’s what helps keep passion and romance alive in a relationship over many years.

You don’t have to lose your "rough" side — there’s plenty of room for fierceness when you are in the heat of passion. All you need to do is add other elements too.

Here are some suggestions:

1. All lovemaking, whether it is soft or hard, must involve an open heart. That means being present in the moment and emotionally and energetically connected to your partner. Remember to feel your love for your mate during sex, as well as your lust. Together these two make a powerful comvination.

2. Study, study, study about lovemaking techniques, eg:

      i. Free articles at our tantra-sex.com website pecifically articles by us, Al and Pala

      For example  Tantra Loving Step by Step  and  The Married Lovers’ Hot Bed

      ii. Get our "Complete Idiot’s Guide to Supercharged Kama Sutra" — it’s an illustrated, detailed guide to wonderful lovemaking practices. Check it out at amazon 

3. Join our  membership site — there are videos, audios, and articles about wonderful lovemaking techniques, as well as all kinds of great info about creating fulfilling relationships

Al Link and Pala Copeland

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