Is it normal to turn gay and why does it happen?
September 29, 2009 by Al Link
Filed under Questions and Answers
Could you please tell me if it is normal at my age [43] to turn gay and why does it happen?
ANSWER
There is nothing wrong or abnormal about being gay. It is completely natural to find you are interested in sex with other males. If you explore this option you may find you like it and want more of that, or you may find you don’t like and don’t want more of it.
Unfortunately our society and culture tends to penalize and attack homosexuality, and mostly this is out of fear. So you can get some pretty nasty feedback and treatment from people if they know about your sexual preferences. You will have to experiment and discover how much of yourself to reveal to the world, but at the very least be cautious who you share this information with.
Why this would be emerging at this time in your life is pretty much a mystery. One possible factor could be the hormonal changes that are happening as you age. Particularly, the testosterone/estrogen balance. As men age testosterone decreases and estrogen increases. This new balance can drastically effect all aspects of your sexuality including, erection, ejaculation, libido, and sexual gender preferences.
If you are unhappy with the changes you are experiencing, consider consulting a physician. He or she can do a complete blood analysis to determine the hormone levels and prescribe medications to correct any imbalances.
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