I’m thinking I will becoming impotent
September 17, 2009 by Al Link
Filed under Questions and Answers
I am a 29 years old unmarried man. I’m going through an uncommon problem. I never involve with the sex to any opposite till now. I used to masturbate 9-10 times in the weak by watching sex movies or reading the book related to sex. Few days before I read in a book that thinking during the sex effects on you erection & causes impotency. From that day I feel problem in the erection during masturbation even I thinks during that time about my failures, where I was beaten by guys. I think & having erection problem now I’m thinking I masturbated a lot and I might fail during the sex. I’m beaten by a guy and it is not the sign of a true man. By this types of thought I’m thinking I will becoming impotent & life is going to be hell. Tell me how I get rid of this kind of problem & happiness come in life.
ANSWER
The way you think about sex, ejaculation, erections, and yourself all affect your body’s sexual response including particularly your erection.
You must catch yourself when you are thinking negatively or badly about yourself. Notice your self-talk. As soon as you find you are giving yourself negative messages inside your head, you must replace them with images and thoughts about the way you do want to be, not the way you fear you are.
Cut back on masturbation as much as possible or completely if you can. There is nothing wrong with masturbation, but if you are having erection problems, frequent ejaculation can cause this, so by avoiding ejaculations during masturbation you will have much greater sexual vigor and vitality when you make love with a woman.
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