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It could be the angle or depth of penetration that's causing you discomfort. It could also be the speed and forcefulness of thrusting. Other factors can be the size of your vagina compared to the size of your partner's penis.

Here are some suggestions to experiment with:

1. try only engaging in rear-entry positions later on in lovemaking, when you are very aroused. Your vagina will engorge, expand and lubricate more as you become more excited so there's room for more of him.

2. try slower, less deep thrusts

3. try changing the angle of penetration — for instance, if you're normally on all fours with your back straight, parallel to the bed, try bending over further, down on your elbows or bend your back so that your chest is on the bed.


If none of these help, you might consider a gynecological exam to see if there's anything out of alignment internally.