Sex has never been very good between us
August 3, 2009 by Al Link
Filed under Questions and Answers
My wife and I have been married for 10 years. Sex has never been very good between us. It was better in the beginning now it’s non-existent. Maybe 1 time a month and then it’s as quick as possible. My wife is very sexy and I want to have sex every day but I know she doesn’t like it so I don’t even try. She doesn’t like any kind of foreplay just do it quick and be done, which makes me not want to do it. I don’t know what to do. I have asked her if we can go to a therapist but she doesn’t want to do that either.
ANSWER
I would suspect that your wife has a history of sexual abuse and/or other experiences of sexual trauma from her past that is interfering with any normal healthy adult sexual expression. Therapy (which we do not do), or counseling (which we do offer, and it is very therapeutic) is almost certainly required if she is to heal any existing sexual wounds, and also our workshop(s) to help her learn the art of mature, healthy adult sexuality would be most helpful. For workshops I would recommend a private session. We could not give you the personal attention and help needed with a regular workshop including other couples.
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