Is it psychological or emotional?
April 13, 2009 by Al Link
Filed under Questions and Answers
It didn’t really bother me for a while…but it’s been a few years now and he still can only cum either on me or on my face. Is it me? I’ve never had this problem with anyone before and i am starting to think it’s a little weird. Is it psychological or emotional?
ANSWER
Sadly, it sounds like your boyfriend has been powerfully conditioned by watching pornography. I am speculating, but would bet more than a dime, that he has spent many a session getting off masturbating while watching porn movies. This practice if prolonged over a period of years, not uncommonly leads to a kind of addiction of the sort that only allows for that person to get satisfaction with the same predictable, but ultimately shallow practice of going for the cum shot, particularly the cum shot to the woman’s face. So, yes it is more than a little weird and I suggest he gets some counseling help. If he refuses this, you might consider moving on and finding a more suitable partner.
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