Do you think he is trying to get out of the relationship?

I am 25 he is 18. He has a girlfriend but we are sexually active (Oh and I make sure he wears protection and so do I). Is he trying to find attention in the wrong place or does he just want to be with someone older. I think he really likes me and I am sort of interested in him. But our age is so different and like stated before he is in a relationship. What does this mean? Do you think he is trying got get out of the relationship or just testing the water.

I don’t wish to burst your bubble, but a bit of reality may be called for. A man age 18 is at the peak of raging hormones. The testosterone in his body drives him to seek sexual partners. This is not all there is to a man at the age of 18, but it is rare for a teenage man to think intelligently about anything other than what his cock tells him to do.

If he has a girlfriend that is public, and you are an affair that is private, it is highly unlikely that you now or ever will mean anything more to him other than a warm bed and wet vagina. But it is certainly possible that you mean more than that to him; only you can know. Just beware of deluding yourself, making his attention mean something that it is not, just because you so badly want it to mean more than it really does.

On the other hand, if he really cares for you beyond sex, then you have the right to ask for a different kind of attention and a different level of commitment. The easiest way to find out is to ask for what you want straight up. But be prepared to never see him again. Otherwise, enjoy his company, his attention, his sex, and all the pleasure that goes with that for a short time, and when you are ready let it go and move on to building a truly significant relationship with someone, where both of you are willing to do the work of creating and sustaining relationship that can bring lasting happiness and fulfillment, based upon real love, not just great sex.