How can I make her attain orgasm fast?
January 14, 2009 by Al Link
Filed under Questions and Answers
My girlfriend is in love with me and wants me to marry her, but what makes her sad always is that I have a short penis and I can’t go deep. Please, I need other ways and steps which I can make her attain orgasm fast.
ANSWER
Be clear on whether the problem is your own perception and feelings about your penis, or if this message is really coming from your partner.
There is no real evidence that penis size is the most critical factor in sexual satisfaction for a woman. In your question you include your desire to “make her attain orgasm fast.” This could be a big part of the problem rather than a solution to it.
Here are a few pointers.
1. Slow down. Slow wayyyyyyyyyyyyy dowwwwwwwwwwwwn!
2. Drop the performance goal of trying to get to orgasm and focus on giving and receiving pleasure over a period of hours rather than trying to conclude your lovemaking in a few minutes.
3. Make sure there is a deep emotional connection. Make sure she knows how much you care for, love and adore her. Make this actual and real, not pretend.
4. Take a very long lead up, or foreplay, before there is any attempt at penetration. How long? At least 20 minutes, preferably an hour or more.
5. Try to assist and encourage your partner to have a clitoral orgasm before there is any intercourse.
6. Learn techniques of ejaculation mastery, so you can delay your ejaculation over a period of hours, during which there can be several sessions of intercourse, rather than having intercourse be one time leading quickly to ejaculation.
Doing these things will ensure that her vagina is ready for penetration including activation of the g-spot as well as all of the many other super-sensitive orgasmic spots within the vaginal canal. She must be juicy and well lubricated before any attempt at penetration. This is one indication that the vagina is ready.
Deep penetration is not required for a woman to have massive orgasms with intercourse.
However, many women do appreciate full penetration all the way to the cervix at the very back or bottom of the vagina. If your partner is one of these, here are a couple of options to help please her in that way.
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There are a huge number and variety of dildo and vibrator products available. Here are some links to follow to select from among this abundance of options. In your case be sure to get just the right one to suit your partners desire. You may have to try several before you get exactly the best one (or several different ones).
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