I never cum but when we do it i feel like im going to explode.

Me and my bf have beenn in a relationship for four months now. We have sex almost everyday except for when im in my period. We never use a condom or any sort of protection but he always comes outside, and i dont have any complains about that. The problem im facing is that i never cum but when we do it i feel like im going to explode with pleasure. He always comes when the pleasure has reached its maximum.I really dont understand why that happens,could u please explain and advice me?

 
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I’m glad you’re enjoying making love with your boyfriend, it is a beautiful thing to share. You can learn to have orgasms. You can learn to have many of them and many different kinds. Women are different than men, men mostly have orgasms with ejaculation and feel it in primarily in their genitals. Women, on the other hand, can have orgasms in many ways and in many parts of our bodies.

Here is a really good article that we wrote for a men’s magazine. It’s called "Freeing Female Orgasm" and it gives both of you good ideas on how to help you learn to have orgasms.

Also we have an ebook ($9.95) that goes into a lot more detail about women and orgasms. It’s called "Awakening Women’s Orgasms". You can find out more about it here.

Lastly, you say you aren’t using a condom. Are you on the birth control pill? Are you protected in any way? It is very, very easy to get pregnant, even if you boyfriend pulls out before he comes some sperm can be released before that. Plus, with unprotected sex there is a very great danger of STIs, sexually transmitted infections. Show how much you care for him — protect each other!