The difference between kissing with open eyes and closed eyes
November 14, 2008 by Al Link
Filed under Questions and Answers
What’s the difference between when you kiss someone with your eyes open than when you kiss with your eyes closed?
ANSWER
Lovemaking, including kissing, with eyes closed tends to encourage the lover to go into his/her own world, and may result in an emotional, energetic and spiritual disconnect. On the other hand, with the eyes open, looking into each other’s eyes, encourages an emotional, energetic and spiritual connection. The lovers can be transported to a much higher consciousness, awareness and pleasure with the eyes open. Of course you do not keep your eyes open every instant, and it certainly is not a staring contest. Rather the eyes meet in a soft gaze, welcoming each other inside. Meeting like this with eyes open is a profoundly intimate thing to do and many lovers, not used to this deep intimacy, may find they are shy or afraid of it. Sometimes they will giggle or laugh to cover their discomfort. But with a little persistence and practice both of you will quickly discover the joys of opening your heart by becoming emotionally vulnerable and transparent to each other. Definitely add this practice to your lovemaking.
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