Sex with someone else
November 7, 2008 by Al Link
Filed under Questions and Answers
Why would a married man ask a woman if she has had sex with someone else, since they have not seen each other?
ANSWER
I am not sure I understand your question, particularly the last part, “since they have not seen each other.”
I assume you mean a married man is having or is considering having a sexual affair with another woman (not his wife). If that is the situation you have in mind, then of course he might enquire about her sexual history with other lovers. This is the age of AIDS after all and it is now well understood that when you have unprotected sex with someone, you are actually exposing yourself to a number of nasty and even deadly sexually transmitted diseases such as AIDS. It would be a perfectly reasonable, rational, and intelligent question to ask a potential sex partner about their previous sexual activity. If you are not doing this with your sexual partners, I urge you to start doing so immediately. If you are embarrassed or offended by such questioning, you are living in a past that no longer exists, and doing so is at your own peril.
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