My girlfriend can’t orgasm
October 14, 2008 by Al Link
Filed under Questions and Answers
So the male doesn’t ejaculate and the female does, right? And they both move the sexual energies to higher chakras? My girlfriend can’t orgasm so I’m hoping this is right. What does the female do to not get tired after cumming? Does guiding energy upward prevent this or is it the males job to give the proper energy?
ANSWER
Both men and woman can have multiple orgasms, but the man must learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation in order to have multiple orgasms. By having an orgasm without ejaculation, the man does not lose his erection or his libido (desire). He stays ready, eager and able to continue on with the lovemaking. Once he can do this the lovemaking can last for hours, rather than the few minutes that is more common.
The responsibility for going to higher spiritual ecstatic states is equal with both lovers. Neither of you can be responsible for the experience the other one has. Your only responsibility to each other is to undertake the disciplined learning necessary to develop sexual skill and mastery of the hot sexual energy.
To help your female partner continue with the lovemaking after a first clitoral orgasm, stop and become completely still, but maintain the lightest possible contact with the clitoris and, say for example, your tongue. Then wait perhaps 30-60 seconds and try to start moving again, but notice carefully her response. If she is ready, go ahead, if not stop and wait again. Repeat until she is ready to proceed. Don’t break the contact or it will be very difficult to continue.
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