How do I set the pace for a slower more Tantric experience?

I am beginning my Tantric journey and am refraining from Ejaculating. My girlfriend has been away for three weeks and in another week I am seeing her for the first time since she left. Our lovemaking often is hard, fast, and wild, which is how she and I both liked it. However, I now want to make our sex life more tantric so my question is given the insane desire we will both have when we first get alone, how do I set the pace for a slower more tantric experience when she’s just ready to jump on me?

A Tantra quickie may sound like a bit of an oxymoron, but even Tantric lovers do have quickies. One of the best times for a quickie may very well be when you have been apart for some time and both of you are bursting with horniness for each other. After that first fast passionate encounter, you can then slowwwwww way down and savor every breath, every touch, every energetic twitch, every glance with the eyes, with you delaying ejaculation for hours after that. Delicious, yes.