He began experiencing erectile dysfunction
August 28, 2008 by Al Link
Filed under Questions and Answers
I’ve been reading your Soul Sex: Tantra For Two. and it’s a great book, but our relationship problem is that at age 31 and after about 3½ months he began experiencing erectile dysfunction. We’ve had sex once since then. What can I do? I’m so miserable because it’s hurting his pride and he’s less affectionate and defensive about it. He’s seeing a therapist but honestly, I see mine more often than he does. Whenever he tries to make an appointment for testosterone testing or what have you, the Dr. is out of town or something.
Al, any advice on how to handle him through this intensely awful situation? I want to spend my life with him. But I think I need to leave him. My life was fuller with him in it, and then he went away.
ANSWER
At the very least he must start doing PC squeezes, working up to about 100 per day over a 2-3 week period and continuing daily after that. The squeeze is the same as stopping the flow of urin mid-stream.
Also, he can add these supplements to his daily diet.
200 mg. Pycnogenol
500 mg. non-flush Niacin
400 mg. Horny Goat Weed
3 g. L-Arginine
If he has any history of herpes do not take the L-Arginine.
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