Me and my boyfriend went over to my friend's place to hang out. We got drunk and stayed there for the night. We slept together in one room. My boyfriend was at the other bed. I was supposed to sleep beside him but instead slept with my friend. I don't know what I was thinking but I began groping her. She never reacted and never said anything about what happened. She just kept silent and never spoke to me again.  My boyfriend knows about it and he never got mad. He knows that sometimes I also like other girls. I mean, I sometimes do cam-whoring for him to look for sexy, yummy and hot girls. I am really confused right now. Why is this happening to me? I love my boyfriend and I have the desire with the same sex.

ANSWER

Almost everyone has a certain amount of bi-sexuality within their nature–some more so than others. This attraction for same sex can appear at different times in their lives. Although you may be feeling confused, there's nothing "wrong" with you. Take a long look at what you feel and think. Love yourself for who you are. Then decide on how you want to act on your feelings. Do you want to experiment sexually with women? Do you want to be in a monogamous relationship with your boyfriend? How would he feel about you being sexually involved with a woman? The important thing is that you be true to yourself and honest with others.
 

If possible talk to your former friend. Explain to her that you are learning about your sexuality — that you didn't mean her any disrespect or pain.


And, if you're concerned about your actions when you've been drinking too much — don't drink too much!

Al Link and Pala Copeland

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