“I’m tantric,” what does that mean?

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If someone says "I’m tantric," what does that mean? 

The popular meaning in most of the Western world would almost certainly be they go slowly in lovemaking (often extending the lovemaking to several hours). In addition to that, the man has learned to delay his ejaculation making it completely voluntary as to when and if he will ejaculate. Both men and women have learned to become aware of hot sexual energy as it builds in the genitals and have also learned how to move that energy up through the rest of their bodies toward the crown of the head and possibly exchanging it between them. They have introduced some ceremonial practices into their lovemaking, such as creating a sacred space (transforming the room they are making love in so it is sensual and beautiful), looking for and finding the God and Goddess (Shiva/Shakti) inside of themselves and each other, and offering up their lovemaking as way to remember their own divinity and a way to re-unite them with God—a path to enlightenment. They have switched from a goal oriented approach to lovemaking (get to orgasm) to a pleasure approach—appreciate and enjoy every moment, every touch, every breath, every contact of the eyes…

 

 

 

Al Link and Pala Copeland

4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra