Wikipedia claims that tantric sex involves a WOMAN delaying her orgasms, rather than the man. Is this accurate, and if so, why would it be more important for a woman to delay her orgasms when men are usually the premature ejaculators?

ANSWER

This would be an error to claim only women delay orgasms. It is extremely important for men to learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation. Once they do this, men can then have orgasms without ejaculating and in this way become multi-orgasmic men. Many male tantric lovers will delay ejaculation for weeks or months at a time, even with lotsof sex in between. The resulting accumulation of life force in the form of sexual energy can, if it is successfully circulated up to the crown of the head, lead to profound mystical and spiritual expansions of consciousness. For women, unfortunately, many must first learn how to have orgasms at all—a serious problem for a high percentage of women. This problem of difficulty having an orgasm usually is easily overcome when the lovers switch away from a focus on orgasm and instead focus on giving and receiving mutual pleasure in the context of using their sacred sex as a spiritual practice leading to enlightenment. Typical sexual dysfunction for men in the form of premature ejaculation and erection failure also are rather easily corrected in this same way. After women have learned how to have many orgasms and many different types of orgasms, they can then also practice delaying orgasm to build high sexual charges, which when circulated up through the body lead to the spiritual expansion of consciousness. This is how both men and women use their sexual energy as fuel for spiritual awakening.

Al Link and Pala Copeland

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