My husband can achieve orgasm without ejaculation by stimulating 2 nerves, muscles, or something above the penis on the lower torso . I can’t find any info as to what this area is. I or he can do the stimulation which produces an orgasm which he feels is more like a female orgasm. What is this? I can’t find and answer anywhere. He also has an indentation near it that I can put a knuckle of a bent finger “into” as if I were penetrating him. HELP!  I am not sure what I am stimulating but he would rather have this kind of orgasm than ejaculating. Although, he still ejaculates to keep a healthy prostrate. Can you give me some guidance?

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You haven't given a description of the exact location but here are some possibilities. There are many sensitive spots that can be very pleasurable and even orgasmic.

For instance pressing at the base of the penis on either side of the shaft can stop the ejaculation response and if the man has built up enough sexual charge he can still have an orgasm without ejaculating.

Also there are a number of acupressure spots in the groin crease, along the pubic bone and on the stomach (in a straight line from two finger widths below the navel to the pubic bone) that can give great pleasure especially when highly aroused. Women too can experience orgasm through these spots –particularly the "gate of origin" spot on the row of acupressure points that runs from below the navel to the pubic bone.

Also your husband does not have to ejaculate to keep a healthy prostate. As long as he moves the hot sexual energy away from the prostate he can learn to have many orgasms without ejaculation. This actually has great health benefits because he will not lose all that sexual energy that leaves with ejaculation. The Taoists of China practiced this for many, many years as a  means of prolonging life as well as gaining great pleasure.

You can find out more about orgasm without ejaculation and its benefits in a number of ways. A good place to start are these two articles:

How to Give Her More Than She Can Handle: Simple Techniques for Mastering Ejaculation

Voluntary Ejaculation

Also our ebook Voluntary Ejaculation gives a very complete map of how to do this and has lots of info about keeping a healthy prostate. There is also an excellent book by Mantak Chia called the Multi-Orgasmic Man.

Al Link and Pala Copeland

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