Mind Freedom Exercise (4): Best Friends
March 3, 2008 by Al Link
Filed under Relationship Happiness
Exercises To Do On Your Own
Best Friends
How well do you really know each other? How much do you take each other for granted?
Time for Exercise: 15 minutes to one hour
Properties Required: pen and paper
Steps:
Answer the following questions:What color(s) are your lover’s eyes?
What color is your lover’s hair? Is the hair on your lover’s body all the same color? Compare the hair on his head, face, arms, legs, chest, pubis, etc.
How much does your partner weigh?
How tall is he?
What is the name of the perfume or after-shave or scent your partner usually wears? Could you pick out your partner if you were blindfolded by scent alone?
What is her favorite…
Food Color
Car Animal
Dessert Movie
Ice Cream Book
Perfume Actress
Actor TV Show
Game Sport
Soft Drink Alcoholic Drink
Flower Music
Painter Singer
Band Poet
When your lover sleeps, does he lie mostly on his back, right side, or left side?
What identifying marks are on your lover’s body—scars, moles, tattoos? Where are they?
What is your lover’s birthday?
What are your anniversaries together?
- First Meeting
- First Date
- First Sex
- Going Steady
- Engaged
- Wedding
- Birth of Children
Who is his best friend?
What are your partner’s likes and dislikes?
- List three things your partner likes.
- List three things your partner does not like.
- How does your partner communicate what she likes and doesn’t like as a lover (words, sound, body language)?
Variation:
Share your answers with your lover.
Excerpted from our new book Sensual Love Secrets for Couples: The Four Freedoms of Body, Mind, Heart and Soul, by Al Link and Pala Copeland, Llewellyn, 2007
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Also available as an eBook in pdf for Adobe Reader, prc for MobiPocket, or on CD.
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