February 21, 2008

Body Freedom Exercise (20): Games Galore

Body Freedom Exercises
Exercises To Do Together

Games Galore

Time for Exercise: 30 minutes to all day and night

Properties Required: varies with each game

Treasure Hunt I

Place notes (e.g., sticky notes) to lead your lover on a search for sensual, sexual treasures. The hidden treasures are treats you will give your partner such as: a full-body massage, a foot bathing, lingam or yoni massage, nude photo session, or fantasy of her choice.

Treasure Hunt II

Leave notes around the house with messages leading your lover from place to place, ending at a spot where you are waiting and ready to make love. If it is nighttime, turn off all lights and leave a trail of tea lights to guide your lover to you.

Lipstick Love

Leave red lipstick kisses all over the house: on the new roll of toilet tissue; on the bathroom and other mirrors; on the computer screen; on paper cut-outs taped to walls, counters, and furniture; in his lunch box, briefcase, suitcase, drawers, toolbox, golf bag, bowling ball bag, or gym workout bag; in the pockets of his clothes; inside his shoes, etc.

Rent-a-Thrill: Poor Man’s Thrill Variation

Hire a cab, make out in the back seat while being driven around.

Rent-a-Thrill: Rich Man’s Thrill Variation

Rent a very special and expensive car, e.g., Mercedes, Rolls, Bentley, etc. Drive to a secluded location, park, and make love in the car.

Comments:

If you use your imagination you will be able to come up with playful, sensual, and sexy ways to delight each other. Do your planning alone or together, but take turns with responsibility for creating and initiating the next fun thing to do together.

Excerpted from our new book Sensual Love Secrets for Couples: The Four Freedoms of Body, Mind, Heart and Soul, by Al Link and Pala Copeland, Llewellyn, 2007

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Check also at Amazon.com, Still Here: Embracing Aging, Changing, and Dying (Paperback) by Ram Dass