A particular sexual intercourse position

"Is there a particular sexual intercourse position that is best for the first time we make love?"

There are many positions for sexual intercourse and no particular reason why you should try one first, although it is probably most common for the man to be on top the first time, but that is not any kind of rule.

Far more important is that you go slowly and not go for penetration until she is completely ready for it and wants it totally. Good indications that she is ready, willing, and able will be that she is well lubricated, moving her body (not lying still), making noise (not being quiet), pulling you tight and close with her body, and that she is asking, even begging for you to enter her.

One guideline we recommend is that you pleasure your partner with your mouth (cunnilingus) and your fingers, preferably bringing her to a clitoral orgasm (or very close to it) before there is any penetration. Then the first penetration will be with a finger to stimulate the g-spot. The last thing to go in will be your lingam (penis), and only when she lets you know she is ready. Don’t just barge in because you can’t stand waiting any longer.
 

You must respect her feelings, responding to any hesitation, anxiety, or fear she may have about the first time. Reassure her that you love, care for and adore her. Show how gentle you can be. Only increase the speed, force, power, pressure, or action as she welcomes that also, not just because you can’t control your own passion. Certainly be aware of any discomfort or pain she may experience and respond appropriately by slowing down, penetrating less or even withdrawing completely. If this happens, return to foreplay, and start building her excitement again as if from the beginning, with lots of kissing, hugging, touching, massage, and sweet words of adoration. 

There are many sexual intercourse positions to experiment with, but don’t be in a hurry to try to many at once. Gradually add more position variation with subsequent lovemaking sessions. We have posted photo illustrations of many lovemaking positions in our blog category “Kama Sutra”. Study some of those and try them as they seem to fit with your mood, energy level and state of sexual arousal.