"How can I know that she is totally satisfied with our sexual intercourse? I need some physical indicators."

Answer

First of all, to really enjoy and be totally satisfied with intercourse, your lover needs to be thoroughly ready for it. That means it's important to spend lots of time kissing and caressing her, telling her how wonderful and beautiful she is, and exciting and pleasing her all over her body before there's any penetration. You might manually or orally stimulate her clitoris to bring her to orgasm or very close to it before you slip your penis into her vagina.

Ideally, you'd like her to be aching for you to be inside her. When she's really ready her vagina will be quite wet and the tissues will be swollen (women have as much erectile tissue as men, but it's mostly all inside — the more excited she gets the more her vagina will swell and expand). You may also be able to see a change in color of her genital tissues, as more blood flows there from excitement.

If she's enjoying intercourse, she'll likely be moving her body with yours, matching your rhythms. She may make sounds (actually it's a good idea to make sound during lovemaking–it will help her let go of control and will also move her sexual energy), her breathing will be more rapid, her skin may flush or darken, her nipples will probably be erect.

Orgasms come in many different forms and can occur all over a woman's body. They can be tiny little shivers or great wracking waves of pleasure. They can be located primarily in the clitoris, or in the vagina, or in her breasts, or spread throughout her body. Most women learn first to have orgasms through clitoral stimulation, they can also learn to have orgasms during intercourse. Often it helps to be stimulating her clitoris while you're having intercourse–either you or she can be rubbing her clitoris.

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